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Another Sad Night


Ethyl17

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We had to put our dear Kira to sleep today.

 

The last week had been difficult for her. We took her home from the Vet Hospital on May 1st, deciding on medication and comfort. We were blessed with eight weeks of her love and devotion. Much longer than was expected.

 

Just this last week, the medications were failing and what I could get into her, did not stay. The weekend was tough and I made the call to the Vet on Monday, while Bruce was in the Peridontist's chair.

 

I did not tell Bruce until this morning. He had the Peridontist and we had the deck stainers coming. I wanted to make sure Bruce would be OK. Erma could stay longer, but I knew Bruce would be better with his best friend. Fortunately Bob was right on board. I did go to work. But I come home to Bob, Bruce and Erma sitting with Missy, who was just adoring the attention - LOL. Right up to the end! Makes me smile.

 

Bruce is OK so far. We had a long talk after his nap - he wanted to know how she did. Then he asked for a shower because he has PT tomorrow. Mornings will be difficult for him as he was used to having breakfast with her and I do worry about the mornings Bruce is alone when I am at work. Fortunately tomorrow I am home for his PT and errands. Erma will be here Thursday. So I will see how it goes on Friday and if I need Erma a few more days until I retire on August 1st, that is OK.

 

I want to thank Julie, who has been so supportive in all this. Understanding my concerns and my emotions. Kira spent every night with me, after Bruce went to bed. There were times she was all I had and certainly stepped up. I know I did the best by her. My heart is broken, but only for me. She is at peace and finally does not have to take charge of all these incorrigible humans! LOL.

 

Thank you all for you love and support. Debbie

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Oh my Debbie -- i wish we never - ever had to lose our loved ones - whether they be people or pets … sometimes i swear i grieve the loss of a animal more….. our little lovers - they cuddle us and purr and make us feel loved and needed when no one else does….. my thoughts and prayers are with you and Bruce --- you lost a member of your family and for that a big hole will be - for a long while … fill it with love, but knowing you - you already have… nancyl

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I am so sorry! We lost our beloved Mooch this time last year too, although the extra few weeks we bought were a godsend. Hopefully you'll keep busy enough in the coming weeks that it will be a gradual adjustment. But there is no escaping the grieving. So sad.

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So sorry you 2 have to feel this loss of a constant companion. It never gets easier to lose them, but after awhile, we begin to remember the good times, and the last bad ones are not so very prominent. Hugs & prayers for you both.

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Debbie :

 

I am so sorry for your loss, sending you hugs, love & strength to get through this huge loss

 

Asha

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Yes, I so can relate too. My furballs were there when I was alone after Larry stroked. They give us unconditional love. But it is just so hard when we have to give them up. You did your best for Kira.

 

Julie

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Debbie and Bruce, I send my love and prayers to you both. I know it is hard, you just losted a family member, but keep thinking of all the good times and those time's will bring a smile on your face.

 

 

Yvonne

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Debbie, pets are part of the family too and we grieve almost as much at their loss. I am sorry you had to put her down, I know it was hard. Think of the good times as this is what has always pulled us through all the tough times.

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debbie, i too am very sorry for your loss. kira is free of pain and sickness now its always so hard for us to put our pets down. but they do depend on us to help them when they need it. you have cared for her well. its always hard to say goodbye. i have you and bruce in my thoughts and heart, as you work through this tragedy

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