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We made it through almost 3 weeks since Larry's discharge


thejule1

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Well the home therapy nurse discharged us yesterday. I guess she thought Larry was doing so well and I was able to care for him without her. The PT still comes as she said she discharges herself. The dietician was a big help in helping to monitor the feeding tube and the diahrrea. The medications were a problem for me as the facility did not train me in those. Some of Larry's meds were pills that could be crushed, others were liquid or capsules. The capsules (emptied) were a problem as they tended to clog the tube. I was told by some to dissolve the contents of the capsules in Coke or water but that did not work. I finally got one of the meds changed to a pill form and the other I just have to push through with water and syringe. The feeding tube was more difficult for me as the feeding has to be done on a timely basis. I give Larry most of his meds one time a day and one at night. The feeding is 4 times a day about every 4 hours. He cannot take anything by mouth except for ice chips. He does not like the ice chips as it is too cold. The speech therapists said he must have these 2-3 times a day to help with the swallowing and to keep his mouth free of bacteria and dryness. He seems to be doing well on all of this and is slowly gaining weight back. He walks well now and has PT a couple times a week. She said she will take him outside next week when the weather warms to high 50 to 60. I said "good luck with that". lol She is the same PT we had when Larry had his stroke 5 years ago. She can get Larry to do more than I can.

 

It is a lot more work than I expected but I have my son here to help since he is in between jobs, which is unfortunate for him but lucky for me. I also have my home helper, Jim, to come two times a week.

 

Larry has his doctor appointment next Wednesday with the new doctor we were able to get from the facility he was in. She is a geriontologist and is with the hospital as his urologist and vascular surgeon. I finally have all of Larry's doctors at one facility.

 

We are lucky we missed the heavy snow with only frigid temps to deal with this winter. Spring cannot come too soon.

 

Julie

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Julie, you have done a mighty task to get Larry where he is and sounds like you have more work ahead of you but if it it worth it you will do it.  You are an extra special person to be able to take all of this on.  I am glad you are back blogging again and we will look forward to your updates and I hope to see yo back in chat soon.

 

Having the specialists you need in the same place will make life a lot easier for you too so I hope they all stay put for a while. It is good he has the same PT and you have Jim back. I was always pleased when someone Ray knew walked in the door as his aide, no long explanations just a greeting and they got down to the job.  Makes life so much easier.

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Julie,

 

I'm happy for Larry and having the people you got makes Larry's recovery so much better... I nearly got the same thing with one lady that comes to my house 2 hours each day during the week... She helps me ride my exercise bike and walks with me in the house and in the garage.. The weather is not right to be outside for me right now but I got her for quite a while yet!!! The VA pays for her services to me as a disable veteran!! I'm a 100% disable...

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Julie,

sounds like you are doing a great job and things are coming along. Many years ago i'd had several surgeries for Crohn's Disease, they wrnt badly and I was fed for a month by a TPN line. Was not allowed even ice chips! There is a glycerin(
I think) coated swab that was used to moisten my mouth as was a damp wash cloth. They helped, but boy I wish I'd had ice chips! If Larry cannot do ice chips as much as you would like, maybe try these just to keep his mouth moistened. Good luck going forward.

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So very happy to read this you sound like you and Larry are doing well.  Glad that he is home and that you are getting things under control.

Remember to take a little time each day for you

Praying that things stay on this track and that the weather gets warm enough for Larry to get outside for a walk

Hope to see you in chat again soon but I know that your hands are full right now

Take care and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers

Sally

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Hi Julie

Looks like you made it work! I am glad you have son here to help too and it is good for him to spend time helping his dad out now too and good for Larry to have his family all there. It may not all go smoothly all of the time but where there is love there is a way.  You just stay plugged in to support and get recharged as often as you need.  Find your meaning in each day. Maybe find a way to document the memories of this time home all together.  In my opinion in all the heavy duty seriousness we have to be adults but i think that there is value in the silly, the playful, the lighter humor where we just laugh and have fun together so life is more than appointments and chartings and griefs.  Just don't forget game night or comedy night or spontaneously going someplace just because even if it isn't spontaneous because it takes planning.  And don't forget to have sneak away time to go get a manipedi. It would be a smart thing to do to get in some exercise class for yourself or other physical activity you enjoy.  Never feel guilty for taking time for self care because that is an investment in caring for Larry too and you count too and someone needs to care for you too.   I am glad to hear how wonderful it is going. There are many on here who are experienced caregivers and there is a handbook on this site too that is helpful.  You are a dedicated wife and mother so don't feel bad if you just need a break. Plan on it.

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Julie, please that everything is going well.  Do  make sure that you get time for your self

so imporant.  Great that your son is there. All in my prayers.

 

Hugs Yvonne

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