pam,

i'm not trying to turn strokenet into a dating service, however. OPEN YOUR EYES. if i was single, which i'm not, i can think of at least TEN SINGLE MEN, who are members of this site. they are funny, intelligent, kind hearted, AND THEY HAVE HAD A STROKE AND THEY UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! they are of varying ages, but don't let that be a big factor. i can think of one in particular that i'd "snatch up" in a HEARTBEAT.

IT WOULD BE A LOT SAFER TO BEFRIEND A MEMBER HERE THAN TO "SURF" SINGLES ADS, THAT'S PLAIN DANGEROUS., I THINK. TO EACH HIS OWN.

my two cents

kim

p.s. my lips are sealed as to his identity. i might find myself single again sooner than i think and i don't want you "stealing" him LOL

Pam,

I'm glad you found a new hobby. It sounds like fun....catalog shopping from your armchair. Maybe we can find that guy from chat who was "looking for a survivor to take care of for humanity" and a green card I was thinking at the time.

Kim,

You're going to have everyone searching the profiles for your mystery man/men. I can't guess!

Jean

jean,

believe me, he hasn't a CLUE. and i would DIE first rather than reveal it. UNLESS of course i get single again and "snatch him up" lol lol

all of you girls can be bridesmaids!!!!!!

kim

he's made enough posts for you to figure it out. he's a dreamboat of a man. and nice looking to boot. OK THAT'S ALL OF THE HINTS!!!!!!

OH, THERE'S PLENTY OF OTHERS TOO, I "HAPPENED" TO NOTICE!!!!!! LOL

I think a singles-strokers chat-fest is the order of the day!

I feel you're onto something here. I have my days when I wish my DH knew how I now know life! I think your onto a brillant idea!!!

I'm confused. What the **** is the difference Kim, if I meet someone on StrokeNet or Yahoo?????? Like it is all online is it not? What, you think everyone that registers on this site is safe? Tell me, how do you know they are really survivors as they say they are?

My guess is his name has 3 letters in it, am I right?

Pam

THIS IS HILAROUS! I LIKE READING THOSE IN THE PAPER BUT I READ THOSE FROM WOMEN AND LAUGH AT THE WAY THEY ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL AND THIN. I'VE ALWAYS WANTED TO BE SITTING IN THE PUBLIC PLACE WHERE THEY MEET. I JUST BET............LIES!

UMMM, WONDER WHO THAT MAN IS???????????????????????????

You can tell me because I'm old enough to be his mother!

no pam his name has 4 letters in it lol and gf wat exactly u wanting to do a touch test on lol if i can help honey im here ok

My younger bother happened upon a chat room, met a girl, talked for several yrs., dated, and now they are 2 happily married Engineers. Who knew?? I think there is nothing shameful about it.

-Amy

Stanley,

Never mind! I thought you were a southern boy gentleman! You are too easy!

Pam

lol pM EASY HUH

Stan,

Yes, EASY!!!! Aren't you southern Georgia boys taught it is better to play hard to get! Easy isn't a desireable thing.....Do I have to teach you everything? Us yanks know what we're talking about! Ha!

Pam

Hey, Pam, I'm pretty sure that Michael and Kathy met on line. And then there is Rush Limbaugh and his woman. It can work. Just make sure he leaves all knifes and axes at the door before you invite him in.

Kim, can't we have one more clue? We promise not to tell the guy that you have a royal crush.

Jean

I can name six couples that met through yahoo personals. And to this day all is well with them. I can also name one horror story, that could just as easily have happened with a guy met at the corner market.

Even in person you only know what people tell you, though you can make better judgement calls on what they are saying, versus what you are seeing...

I've met many wonderful people online, never saw any of them in person, and I consider them good friends. Just be careful if you choose to do this.

Aunt Cinder

Yes, me and Kathy met online. It was in a chat room that we both happened to stumble upon one night while we were mutually bored. Both of us had sworn off relationships and becomming a couple was the last thing we intedended when we started an online friendship. Aug. 10, will be 4 years of marriage for us

I've dated women I've met through online personal ads, and have made lasting friendships with some of them. The good thing about online dating is that you can form an emotional bond before a physical one takes over. Though, you still have to watch out for liers and sicko's.

Happy shopping!

Michael

okay pam

NO his name does not have three letters. FIVE. ( THAT COULD BE A NICKNAME), BUT I DON'T KNOW HIM THAT WELL . LIKE I SAID , I'M STILL MARRIED AND NOT REALLY LOOKING, BUT CAN'T HELP BUT NOTICE, I'M ONLY HUMAN. LOL

ONE MORE THING PAM

IT WOULD TAKE A SICKO TO JOIN THIS SITE AND LIE.

MAYBE IM MORE NAIVE THAN I THOUGHT, BUT, I AINT LOOKING FOR A MAN.

KIM

UUUUUUMMMMMMM Kim,

You are niave. Since I've been associated with this site as staff, there have been quite a few imposters, that hadn't had stroke touch their lives. You aren't face to face, you don't know who anyone is! Basically we all become font of varying sizes typed on a screen!

Pam

ok pammeeela dats it lol lets carry this outside lol im not easy there lady at all

no where near easy thank you very much and as you know yourself i have a gf

im not looking myself and we met online also i dont think anything is wrong

with meeting people online my friend

and thats what you are my friend so everyone else on this site like asha

knows i have a girlfrend im not chasing pam myself and pam are just good friends we cuttt up and joke around alot but wat the hey so what

good luck with your search pammeeeeellla

Stan, So, I guess what you're saying is that you and Pam are just friends? Shucks, we all knew that!! Well, most of us did. She's looking for a guy with a driver's license.

Pam, I figured out Kimberly's hot crush---Marty. Well, she said he had five letters in his name. Oops, she also said he wasn't married. Darn, I thought we had it figured out! But then again, Marty could be lying about there being a Mrya in his life just to keep you young chicks from jumping his bones every where he turns.

Jean

Mom,

You are a hoot! (Senior moment being pointed out here!.....) Myra is Perry's wife...... I don't know Marty's wifes name? Or don't remember it. But Marty is a good guess for Kim!

Stanley, of course we are just good friends, always have been, strictly buds.

By the way Stan, as I always have to get the last word in, you are too easy!

Pam

valid question:... I think my reply got hijacked? He he

There are not hi-jacking rules in blogs. hehehehehehhe!

Marty, I'm sorry I hooked you up to Perry's wife for the night. Then again, I proabably should be apologizing to Perry instead.

Jean

pam,

you are right, i am naive. DUH. anyway, is marty not married? if he isn't he'd be a good candidate to go on my "list" of eligible bachelors for you to choose!!!!!! lol if he is married, sorry marty, no offense.

kim

okspandex ur not winning this one im getting the last words in ha!

now now spandex give me a reason as to how u think im easy ha ha

you cant there ole buddy ole pal ole buddy of mine

peace n luv

Ok, Kim said that the Mystery Man had these characteristics. These came from Kim's blog (since there are no rules against hijacking in a blog according to Jean)

I wonder if I could be this Mystery Man

1) he is between the ages of 28-48

I am between these ages so I meet this one YES

2) his name has seven letters in it ( i said five in error yesterday, sorry)

C H A R L E S

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 YES

3) his name has an L in it

C H A R L E S

YES

4) he is funny, sweet, and kind hearted

Maybe Yes Maybe No Depends on your point of view

5) he has female friends

YES

6) he is nice looking

Maybe Yes Maybe No Depends on your point of view

7) he is a survivor

YES

8) he has NO idea it is he we are talking about

Maybe Yes Maybe No

So I went through the 8 items and found out I maybe the Mystery Man

Charles

Well Charles, aren't you the cute one all full of yourself???? Did you reply to Kim's Mystery Man blog???? Ummmmmmmm, Charles, one thing though, one big gaping hole you ignored..............Not to burst your bubble, but gee, you are married, I believe the Mystery man is single. So you are completely now knocked out of the running.

Pam