I think I told you all in another blog that my sister moved from CO. to be with me. She is the baby of the family, so her and I are learning about each other.

And we have been almost non stop seperation from one another. We are both living a little like teenagers. Neither one of us had a adult life before marrying, and taking care of kids. So we go out a lot ( more than we should) and we have been adopted by a group of older men, which sounds a little bad , but it is not that way, I promise. Just a bunch of farmers to visit with. And not worrying about " others" bothering us to much. So me and Emmy ( sister) can people watch which is our favorite activity.

And this girl has been through her own personal hell. She was married to a complete narrasacistic jerk. who literally did nothing to take care of his family. He once bought a two thousand dollar bike ( rarely used it ) , now it sits. But he forgot food needs to be on the table for the kids. And sis was already working 2 jobs.

So she like me is a wounded bird. both of broken by life. But I am slowly healing from my depression and she is as well. So we have been so good together . And knowing her now has been such a honor. She came here for me. sacrificed for me. And she has some positive benefits as well. No working two jobs just one. she can support her college kids for the most part ( only food and incidentals ) but still it gives her pride. Before it was hand to mouth always thinking a mile ahead of the husband and knowing his priorities - not his kids- is a hard road to deal with.

and as mothers we want the ability to be there for our children, and health insurance is good to.... lol...

Any how wanted to introduce my sister to you all. without her, I am not sure where I would be in this depression mess. Nancyl