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My Daughter Has An Apartment Now


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Well, I got her a place to live which is pretty nice and now the next step is getting her social security SSI started back without too much more delays on social security's part..... She has been drawing ssi since she was a very young child about 10 years old.... They are telling her to call them back in 3 to 6 weeks so in that case I will have to pay for the apartment several months before they give her any money....

 

I still got to try and get her cable service from time warner since she screwerd that up too by not paying her bill.... That's what happens when you are on drugs and commit a felony as she did and have to serve 5 years in the big house... Now she is 51 years old and nothing to show for it...

 

Her mom, my first wife passed in 1998 and her brother, my son and second child won't have anything to say to her but that is alright she is still his sister and my child.... He doesn't even talk to me and that is OK too with me but one day he will need me again in some way that is how life goes around.....

 

I will go to Walmart tomorrow and try to find a small TV for her then she can have something to look at for company.... I got her furniture in her apartment that she left when they put her in jail... So she has cost me dearly but she is still my child right or wrong which she was all the way.....

 

My prayers are she stays believing in God and going in the right directions....I already said to her "You mess up you are on your own." I guess your kids can cost you plenty money when they head down the wrong road in life..... I told her this is my last time getting her straighten out.....

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Fred, she is your child. The bible says you have to forgive.  I pray that she finds God, and a purpose in her life. She is lucky that she has you.  Your Son will come back to you, he will need you before you need him. 

 

Family in my thoughs and prayers

 

Yvonne

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Fred you can't just turn off your love for her even when you both know she stuffed up.  I do hope for both your sakes that she manages better this time.  But having been in the big house for 5 years she's got a lot of adjustment and learning to do, so reality is she's going to stuff up things like bills occasionally, she'll be completely out of practice at some of that stuff.  So watch out that she doesn't pull you down, but meeting her halfway helps both of you.  So go for it

 

Love

-Heather

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Fred, Tough Love is the hardest love. On you and on her. I'll say a prayer or 10 for you and her.

 

Sincerely,

SweetMom (Donna)

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