Good luck to you and all the best of life and freedom and starting your life over again.....

Yes, you will do well in assisted living, you have done as much as you can where you are and now you need more independence.  You will find plenty to do out in the community if you can find suitable transport.  Good luck with your search.

Assisted living sounds like a great move.  Fingers crossed you find somewhere soon.

God bless you for helping your next-door neighbor many people are not who we think they are with our first impressions your honesty and caring reminds me of a comment a boss of mine once said no good deed goes unpunished best wishes on your move you do have the rest of your life ahead of you keep us posted that is wonderful that you're moving on and it will be nice to have some free time God bless you keep keep helping others I know it helps me so much to help others and it will do it does you too be well my friend you are in my prayers.

Jay

Pam, the first time I read this I missed something vital.  In life when you are helping others there will always be someone who thinks you are neglecting them, you are doing something you have no business doing, or that they could do it better.  It is part of helping others that you will make others jealous. It is something I keep in mind so often just do things quietly without telling others what I actually am doing. Might not be what you were thinking but I saw that in what you wrote.

I am glad you are going and more  importantly able to go into assisted living.  I read about your recent success with pain medication.  as a saying I attribute to st john of the cross, "all is well, and all is well, and all manner of thing will be well"

david

Sue,thank you for thinkg about what I write and responding to it. I value your counsel.

I agree with you. My absence is hard to do silently.

Thak you David !

?Fred and Jay, your encouragementh

Helps.

Heather,your kindness helps.