Please read...any advice on post stroke depression?
I really would like to be posting about all the progress that my Dad is making since he has come home (Dad had stroke at 61 yrs old in April 2010). It is a horrible thing to watch. I come home for the weekend to help my Dad and take some burden off of my brother and my step-mom so they can get some much needed "time off". My Dad is severely depressed, almost non-verbal. My brother and I (brother is 27 and I am 32) muscled him into the car for the first time and took him to Best Buy (his request) and bought him a yamaha keyboard to play. He was an expert guitarist before the stroke and hasnt held a guitar since. He seemed happy about the keyboard purchase and played a bit when he got home, but was frustrated that he could only play with one hand. Then he asked for his guitar...a moment we have all been waiting for. I had tears in my eyes to watch him try to hold the guitar with his right (good)hand and pluck the strings without being able to make the beautiful blues music he has made all his life. He sat slouched over to the left for 20 minutes just strumming the strings and thinking of all that he has lost. It was the saddest thing I have ever seen. He seems to want to sleep all the time, and rarely participates in conversation or his therapy sessions. I am a physical therapist and we were doing some walking training in the garage where my brother built a wheelchair ramp and I was giving him an instruction to move his left (affected) leg forward and he wasnt responding, and I looked up and his eyes were closed, like he just wanted to shut out the world. If this keeps up he will never recover to his full potential, and the whole family is just devastated and we dont know how to help him. Any advice?? We love him so much and it is tearing us apart to see him give up like this.
Fondly,
Sara
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