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Karen, its so great when days like this come our way. They are to be cherished. you are definitely blessed. Love ya Ann

Wesley, Funny Ive had the problem always with those bags. at least you figured it out Congrats. you are so funny. There is nothing you cant do with that attitude of yours. I sure hope I catch it. Ahh days gone by, awesome photos. I used to ride as well, I know wht you mean, its funny how when you walk in full leather dress how heads turn, I always tried to be modest although some we rode with were not so modest. anywho.. your blogs always are uplifting to me wes and gives us all hope. Thanks for sharing.. Ann

Wesley, Funny Ive had the problem always with those bags. at least you figured it out Congrats. you are so funny. There is nothing you cant do with that attitude of yours. I sure hope I catch it. Ahh days gone by, awesome photos. I used to ride as well, I know wht you mean, its funny how when you walk in full leather dress how heads turn, I always tried to be modest although some we rode with were not so modest. anywho.. your blogs always are uplifting to me wes and gives us all hope. Thanks for sharing.. Ann

Karen, You did the right thing, I struggled with the same issues both at work and online and I can tell you that walking away makes you the winner not the looser. Your Health is worth more than any popularity contest! I have learned the hard way that people can be very mean and cruel when they don't understand what is going on and are not intelligent enough to find out or simply do not care enough too or if they think they know everything. I hate that when someone says "There's nothing wrong with you, or We just don't see it, thats like calling me a liar and I dont take well to that. We don't need those people in our lives, realtime or virtually. Karen I am always here for you if you need a true friend who has experienced the same. Continue to walk away and focus only on your health and family and what is truly important. Ann

Awesome photos, beautiful little girl and mommy A reminder to all that stroke canhappen to anyone at any age. Ann

Beth, did you get to the ER, what happened, hope all is ok with you. Ann

Jan, you blogs are always so inspirational. You are so right, HE is the only one we can count on 24/7 and He is the only friend that will not forsake us or disappoint us or judge us. HE is who I look too for comfort and answers. He is the great mentor and counselor, He requires no payment or glory. I try to do All things with Him, through HIM with HIS love, HIS way is the only way! No matter how angry or hurt I become, I do as he would have me to do, whether I want to or not. Sometimes that means turning the other cheek even when I don't want to. He always prevails when I do that, that I can always count on! Ann

Kimmie, so often we get caught up in our own stuff and dont pay attention to those around us. Kimmie I had not idea what you were going thur until now, I knew something but not what. Had I known I could have been more specific with the man upstairs. you have alwasys been my encouragemetn for me and my dad, and I am sorry I wasnt there for you. Glad you are doing better. Ann

Wes, looks like your world is moving right along, happy that your making yourself use your left hand. You are so blessed to have a family that supports you Wes. I had to laugh at colorado (Karen) I believe it is. most bikers are really *beep* cats more like kittens. well some of em anyway. Glad your work is doing better. I feel sure you are going to be able to do anything you put your mind to. Best wishes. You stay so busy and that is good ! take care Ann

Wes, how is work going, I hope much better. Ann

Naomi, what a beautiful post. and so true for stroke survivors, so many times we feel broken and damaged, yet somehow we still bloom where we are planted. Do you mind if I copy and share that post with other survivors I know. here in my home town and otherwise. I think ig is a beautiful depiction of how stroke survivors everywhere must see life now. broken but blooming. Love ya Ann

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Wesley, I am so sorry you had to experience this. Sadly it happens, people don't want to accept or be around what they do not understand. For 5 years I experienced that exact treatment and worse, My advice to you, is this: LET GO LET GOD, LET GO LET GOD. I suggest your follow Miracle Thought for the Day with Marianne Williamson on Oprah podcast, they are wonderful and I wish I had known about them back then. Im here if you need help

Thats awesome I wish Kentucky had something like that. Ann

Awesome, Awesome, Awesome. Don't give up... Ever !!!

Sny update on Steve o. Been praying but need update. Thanks Ann Love ya Man, get well soon

Katrina, YOU WILL NOT BE BROKEN, you are a Warrior ! Acceptance is one of the five things a person must do not to be broken. I wish I has known that along time ago. You are beautiful and you deserve to be happy and I know you will be. I hope this new found acceptance will give you the peace you have sought. Good news, this year I accepted to, let me share this with you. I had some tingling going on in my arms, had a new MRI done and my neuro requested I go see a specialist for MS. yes, MS, talk about a scare, I was terrified. Good news I dont have MS, I was so worried that I would be unable to take care of my dad I was sick. When I wnet to tell him of my good news, he replied,"I wish I would get good news" he has Parkinsons. I cried. I had been so wound up in my own STUFF I had forgotten that he had his own Disease to deal with, I truly believe that every situation is a blessing from God for us to Learn something. I learned that no matter how bad it gets or how worried I am, there are others who have it much worse than I. I think of my dad who has lost his independence totally, if he is not constipated, he is hallucinating or having trouble standing or walking, I know God sent me to him to see how blessed I am and to help me realize what it is to truly loose that independence. The MS was just another big reminder. I hadnt quite got it yet cause I am so hard headed. Remember you ar dis ABLED not DISABLED If you ever get the chance read I will not be Broken. Ann

Wes, Hip Hip Hoorayyyyyyyyyy for you !!!!!!!!! YOU GO WES !!! YOU ARE NOT WAITING FOR THE STORM TO PASS, YOU ARE LEARNING TO DANCE IN THE RAIN ! I LOVE THAT SAYING. You are so blessed, with a very supportive family and work place. With that kind of support you will do just fine. I too spend less time on the site. Life does take us back to reality and I am so glad you don't feel you must blog, but we all will miss it and you. Great to know you and your family, you all are so STRONG, in what you all have been through. I will continue to pray for you and yours. P.S. Kentucky Friends always here, tell your family hi for me. Ann

Jeanie, its weird what a little laughter can do.. It made me laugh and feel better too. Im a twin, and you tell that one twin, its hard and I said so. so its true ... Love ya Girl Let's Party On Ann Stroke Warrior

Hey Jeanie, you FUNKYYYYYYYY cole madinnnnnnnnnnnnna... Herad that song. hope that made you laugh, not making light of your situation girlfriend, but a little humor never hurt anyone. Hey its ok to be mad, angry, in denial, trust me we have all been there and back. I was 44 when I stroked, a life changing event. at time of stroke I was the top ofmy game, looked like a million bucks an BOOM, WAMMO, it took about 5 years post stroke for its effect to show in my face, my body, etc. But I WILL NOT BE BROKEN, get this book Jeanie, by Jerrry White it has helped me immensley. as much as anything can right. The best advice I can give you is this: We all have our own pallette, we choose what colors we paint it with. I choose to paint mine with beautiful colors and create a masterpiece. in other words your worst enemy can be the colors of gray and black. Doom and Gloom, negativity, and pity parties will consume them if you let them. and I know because I did. so I say to you. replace them with sunny happy thoughts, the min your mind goes there, take it away, say a prayer, spend time with a 70+ or a under a year old aged person. Thats amazing therapy. SNAP OUT OF JEANNIE YOU FUNKY COLE MADINNNNNNNNNNNNNA, YOU ARE LOVED, YOU ARE NEEDED AND I AM YOUR NEW FRIEND. YOU CALL ON ME ANYTIME, HEY SOMETIMES I NEED TO FEEL SORRY FOR MYSELF TOO.. Ann Stroke Warrior Kentucky

Hi Mc... pray for them, its their problem and their great loss. So happy for you.. and thats a warmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm wish.. for a hot couple.. yeah. Happy Engagement.. whens the party.. we must have a virtual engagement party or shower... lol. ok everyone. let us know what you plan to do for the shower.. I'm decorating an making the flowers for the happy couple. Really I would if you would let me.. silk designer here. ler me know and Ill ship em.... a boutonniere for him a a bqt for you.. ... my wedding gift. Ann Stroke Warrior