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Dyan - I know what you mean about giving it to get him to shut up! The doc prescribed Megace for hubby to help stimulate his appetite when he quit eating. Hubby was complaining after 2-3 days of the 5 silly little millileters (your average kitchen tablespoon!) that the stuff tasted horrible and he was so pathetic looking while saying this that I gave in and didn't make him take it! Shame on me, because after a home health visit from a nurse, she explained this was probably the only way to get him eating again, and hubby agreed in front of her to take it without complaining. Now, I can't seem to fill him up!!! Just goes to show that us caregivers have to stick to our guns and not be "guilted" into making life easier for our loved ones. What hurts us now, can only make us stronger - right? Kathy

HAPPY THANKSGIVING, ASHA - to you and hubby and kiddo! Your positive attitude just flies off the pages when I read your blogs. I had just told my family that in so many words, Sam and I have so much to be thankful for, even though he is taking the proverbial two steps back and one step forward right now. I am so thankful that he is still here, trying as it may be at times. Let us all give thanks, Kathy

Lenny, I am so proud of you and your determination:happydance: I'm sure if I get my dictionary out, your picture will be right beside the definition of motivation! Keep up the good work, and God will see you through. Kathy

Way to go, Big Guy . Which goes to show you must never give up. Also shows me that there is hope for my guy. Keep up the good work and make us all proud. Kathy

Mike - I haven't been able to sign on as often as I would like, but glad to see that you are having your own health problems taken care of. Glad to heart cath went without a hitch and will send prayers your way for a full recovery after the pacemaker is in place. Take care, Kathy

Mike - what I wouldn't give for an oldies radio station! I too was raised with cousins by the dozens and yet no one but my mom calls to check on Sam. His own children don't even call, which really depresses me... I think he has gotten used to that over the 20+ years we have been married. Wish we could have the commune of Debbie's dreams - we all have so much to give and there are so many who need it.. Give Kitty and Rosemarie a hug from me - I keep you guys in my prayers. Kathy

Glad to hear you and Bruce were able to survive the wrath of Irene. Here in eastern NC we lost power at 8 am Sat and it was back on by 3 PM today - a hot shower will sure be good tonight. Sam was very agitated all week waiting for Irene, but with horses, dogs and new puppies and 3+ dozen chickens, leaving wasa not an option unless it was going to hit inland. He paced the house looking out den door at oak tree and living room door checking on pecan tree. Couple of shingles off, mother nature did some light pruning of small dead branches on pecan tree but we are none the worse for wear. When we planted these trees we made sure they are on the SE and SW side of the house so they won't fall on us. Hopefully, we can all get through Katia with the same resolve as we show tending our loved ones. As a note, Sam's garden arbor came through without a single scratch - lost the tall sunflowers though I was down to my last 2.5 liters of water today, and I am ready to replace ice cream for Sam's dessert tomorrow. Hope the NE states can re-group quickly - winter will be here before we know it. Kathy

Asha, I had missed you terribly at chats and am so sorry to learn of the deaths in your family. My heart and prayers go out to you, and I pray that your family will find peace and comfort in their memories. Kathy

Julie, I second Ruth's suggestion on the nook, but I love my kindle. I know that BEST BUY will actually power them up and you can see and feel them. The e-readers are awesome and a godsend, especially if you don't read fast enough to keep from renewing all the time LOl Take care, and use the eyes in the back of your head that I thought all mothers were born with! LOL Stay safe for Larry (my brother's name!). Kathy