Stroke Caregiver - female
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  • Stroke Anniversary (first stroke)
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    crochet, knittng, quilting, Latino Soaps. Dabbled in most crafts, including tatting, and finally got back to them in 2015.
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  1. SandyCaregiver

    I'm sorry to hear that Dan is up to his old tricks again, and you are falling into HIS pattern of his way or ELSE. I remember the affect it had on you before, when the more you gave in to his 'or else' demands, the worse he got with them. Please be careful Nancy. Don't be controlled by him again, he doesn't see your needs.
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    I'm sorry for your loss... and I am thankful to hear that everything seemed to work together to make it as peaceful a closure as anyone could hope for. I know you will have ups and downs in the changing of your 'role' in this life, and my prayers go with you, I hope to be able to do as well by my own husband, as you did with William.
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    Wow, you have came thru so much, Sue. You are an amazing woman and I have been blessed to have gotten to read your blog over the years. It is true that we are all, perhaps living on angel time, we just don't know it yet. Peace in the time of knowing it, is all any of us can pray for, and you are shining like a star right now!
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    I think we all get caught up in whatever is the prevalent thing in our life, and it can overtake everything else. It's not that different than what your stepmom is doing, but hers is more visible - she is stuck in a place in her mind where she can't stop thinking about the same thing, just like you are stuck. Ok, now to tell on my self. I'm not one of those people that expect or even want help from others, my manifestation of this same 'mind set' is that I have a lot to do and also my own health problems, so I want to do what I need to do fast, and resent getting somewhere (like the pha
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    well.... I guess the biggest things that jump into my mind are all the times when he would do the hunger strikes, and remember when he refused to get out of the van for 3 days and ruined it. I remember him being very cruel to you... often. At least when he's there, you CAN get away from him and just think of your own welfare. I have no idea about ther money, is anything in his name still and if not, how long has it been out of his name? Seems like medicaid could help pay?
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    I am sorry for what you are both going thru. I would like to add that Bob recently had an incident that affected his speech and vision, and during this time period, began to see things and people that were not there. It was a type of seizure... the same kind where people hear the same song non-stop or smell a certain smell - all coming from the brain. In his case it was visual.
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    Yes, and when I say 'grit' I mean grit your teeth and keep at it!
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    We had extremely good insurance at the time, and my husband actually got 52 DAYS of therapy a year (not sessions, but days, with as many sessions in each that you could stuff in). We usually skipped winter/flu season, but in good weather we went 5 days a week and then the first 2 years there were loads of doctor appts. My little 2 year purse calendar definitely got a work out then, hardly and empty block on it. With Bob's month, we are not getting as many of the DIFFERENT things done that I want to, but I have felt so ratty myself, so that's the reason. But I'm thankful for
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    Durn, Nancy, that place should be paying YOU, since you seem to be working there. ? It would appear you are too stubborn (at trying to be everything to everyone) to just say no, so at the time I'm reading this, I'm praying the hip is about ready to take over the extra work you're doing because of that fall. Love you, kiddo.
  10. That's beautiful, Asha. I'm so glad you both have the kind of relationship that grows together, instead of thwarting each other. It matters more in quality of life and happiness, than the circumstances of what happened.
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    Therapy Planner Page

    I've recently gotten into bullet journaling - which has went into an art form, and I'm loving it. I started trying to bullet journal around the middle of Feb, and use a 2 pg daily spread, with everything on it. One of the many things I want to try to get back into is my stroke hubby's therapy, that we are not doing anything, on a regular basis, on (stroked 2012). I got this free print off from a bullet journal group, where the designer wanted to see what people would do with it. There were many things I could use if for, and I pondered it carefully. Then I thought if I used it for hi
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    Sue, do you have any idea why my words are highlighted with white behind them?
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    Bob's Surprise Package

    Haven't shared anything in a long time, but Bob got a nice surprise in the mail today, and I wanted to share it with everyone! Our niece works at the sports arena, and has sent her Uncle Bob a care package of his favorite basket ball team! There are a long poster of the players, 2 Blue Nation candy bars, and another hat to add to his beloved collection of UK hats! Look at his face! HE TOTALLY FLIPPED OUT!
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    oh yes, I see I clicked on the link to grit chair, a different one. My husband has an electric wheelchair, that comes in about 4 parts, each weighing about 39 pounds. When we took it to go to a reunion, it was soooooo hard, because everytime I'd heave up a piece and turn to place it, there'd be some friend standing there, trying to chat me up. Dudes! See my red fast and fast breathing, and sweat running down my face? Yes, that's why they say, I'd help you if I could, but I don't know how it all works. Well... hmmmm... how about waiting till we are inside and THEN coming to talk t
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    worried about you