Linnie

Stroke Survivor - female
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  1. Sue, you and I have another thing in common....It upsets me to have to stop being active for any reason. I'm not at all surprised that you've received visitors and help; more proof that you receive what you give. My thoughts and prayers are with you for a full recovery
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    change

    Hi Kelli, I didn't notice a purple hue...I think it looks great! I'm too chicken to try a different hair color, and dang it (pretending I'm American, lol) still never got a tiny rose tattoo on my ankle that I've wanted forever! Guess I'll get a tattoo sticker, yeah!
  3. Heather, you always give it all you've got, and then some! I'm totally wowed about the perseverance you have. Incredible, girl, keep at it...you influence others!
  4. "why did I have to go through such a bad experience of life to learn these beautiful things about life which does make my life today richer & better. I had read somewhere, in life when drastic change happens be sure to look out for something beautiful to emerge out of it." Asha, such wonderful thoughts! Same as Jay, thank you for sharing. "in forest fire lot of young, vibrant & green also burns out, so believing something good will come out of this tragedy is hard pill to swallow." Nuh, uh! (whatever that means, lol) The trees grow back; it's a long slow process...similar to stroke recovery. Hugs to you,
  5. So sorry to hear of another scare, Sue! Thinking of you....
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    Deigh GB20.gif

    Well then, keep on keeping on Deigh! It would be so great to get your news down the road that you've conquered all problems, and are just enjoying playing your guitar again! Love looking forward to happy days...
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    Deigh GB20.gif

    Great photo! Was that pre-stroke, Deigh?
  8. I'm also very glad that you're out of the hospital, Pam. When the pain is under control, hope it's back to having some fun days!
  9. Heather, believe me I understand. You're the only one who knows what's best for you. Not going to mention it again, my friend, but if you want to, I'll listen!
  10. As long as it's just a scar, that's great! What about "the man"? Still thinking? It's 2017, since he showed interest first, it's perfectly ok for you to contact him about going out for dinner. (Don't worry, Heather, I'm not going to hassle you about this....just curious as always, lol.)
  11. " it's a 22 hour flight with a stop in LA to change plane and you cross the date line so you lose a day coming back, although you gain a day on the way over so I left on 4th July and arrived on 4th July." Ok, that made my head spin; but the rest was extremely interesting! Sounds like a great trip, lots to enjoy. The cruise ship caught my attention....for a number of years, we've been getting large numbers of huge cruise ships docking at my town's harbor on the Island. You get 3 of those ships at the same time, with sooooo many passengers, we stay at home....can't get around town, lol. But last year and this year, many large white whales have been found dead on the beaches; and the cruise ships are being blamed. They've been told to lower their speed to save the whales, but it's a no-go! Ten cruise ships that were to come here this fall have cancelled, and it's expected a lot will be cancelling next spring, summer and fall. Bad for tourism, but I'm happy for the whales! Sorry about the fall on the plane! Can you let us know the outcome of your surgery on your toes....is walking a bit or a lot more easy now? father in law is making "friendship" overtures. It's a funny feeling to be courted I've been single for so long that I'm not sure what I think about it. He seems a nice man.....I'm still deciding what I think so for the moment I'm just keeping the conversation open. Heather, my advice: don't think, do! Even going for dinner with him a couple of evenings, letting him do the talking, will be all you need to learn quite a bit about him....You'll know if you want to keep on seeing him, or if there is no connection at all! Go for it....(and let us know, ok). If he's really intolerable, Bonne chance, mon amie!
  12. Pam, so sorry to hear that you had to be hospitalized. I have a phobia of hospitals, so I can relate to what you're going through. Hope you're feeling well quickly, my friend!
  13. So sorry to read of your ordeal, Sue. My thoughts and prayers are with you! Please do as you advise; take good care of yourself. You've done so much for others, you rightfully deserve some help now! Lots of virtual hugs for you, and also a virtual flower....
  14. I can relate to that Asha. I have a lot of siblings, but we were brought up to be hard-working and independent. Are you like me....find it more easy to offer help than to ask for it??
  15. Hi, Ruth We're getting a lot of news here in Canada about the horrendous impact of Hurricane Harvey in Houston. Numerous home owners without flood insurance, and facing very high cost of repairing their homes. So sad!
  16. Linnie

    Watching a train wreck

    Nancy, more hugs! I agree with Ruth and Julie. You've done all you can; he is in control of what he wants. As far as what you should be doing now....I strongly suggest looking after your own health, don't let your husband's decision tear you apart. I know that would be difficult because of your love of him, but as Julie said, it's in God's hands now. It's ok for you to enjoy life and to laugh.
  17. Yay, Kelli, you did it!! Unfortunate about the glasses and hotel though. Next time! I agree with you 100% about chilling out; it seems to me that the people who get harried and fussy and loud aren't really enjoying anything. My eyes lit up when I read that you went to a Japanese restaurant. I love, love, love Japanese restaurants......food is so great, and the setting is entertaining! Good thing that you weren't interested in shopping in the airports; so expensive. "What I learned is I’m able to do many things when I have assistance and it’s ok to ask for help. I really don’t like to ask" Definitely, it's ok to ask for help; when others ask you for help, you're always there. Remember that saying: "You get what you give". I'm so glad you stuck with your plan to try this! Congrats, Kelli
  18. Asha, so relieved that you had 2 saviors: God and your son! Your trust helped a great deal, my friend.
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    plugging along

    Nancy, you do need a break! Regardless of your love for your husband and children, it's very important that you look after your own health. You are going through so much! You may want to contact someone from the church who knows the importance to Dan to go to Saturday evening mass. I think there's a good possibility that a number of people would graciously offer to provide this assistance when required. Take care!!
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    Total Eclipse

    You were SO lucky to have seen it, Pam. I think they're awesome too. Where I live (eastern Canada), it was only a partial eclipse for us, but I knew the States were getting the full eclipse. I hope Luck stays with you!
  21. Yay, Carol. Such great news! Keep on keeping on, my friend....the world is yours!
  22. Linnie

    ending

    Hi Nancy, Many, many hugs! I have read some of your previous blogs, and understand the ordeal you are going through. I'm a stroke survivor for many years, and am able to deal with my difficulties now. I truly understand that is not always the case. First of all, even though you say you're devastated and elevated at the same time, I sense a bit of guilt. DO NOT FEEL GUILTY! Your husband has made a decision, not you! I really don't know what to say....possibly talk to a doctor if you feel it would help to have their opinion. (In Canada, it's legal for medical doctors to provide assisted suicide, but only in certain circumstances. I understand that it is legal in some of the states as well, but don't know which states and the criteria that has to be met there to have a doctor assist.) Nancy, my heart goes out to you! I wish I could provide you with advice, but I really can't. Just know that I truly care that you look after your health! Edit: I hope Nancy that you have discussed this openly with your adult children. I want to think that in the event your husband does pass away, your children will be holding your hand as well as his.
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    My new wrist

    Jan, lots and lots of hope your surgery is as successful as Katrina's. We'll be waiting to hear your news, and see a smile as beautiful as Katrina's! Best wishes
  24. Hi Asha, hopefully no harm was done and you just need rest...let us know after your check-up on Monday. Sounds like you had a terrific time at your family reunion...so fun! I don't know about you, but my grade school friends are more important to me than post-secondary friends. Bringing back the memories of childhood, being a tom boy, talking about the fun, goofy things we did or thought, can't be beat!! Love your positive take on it! Take care
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    family

    Hi Kelli, I understand very well missing your grandparents. It's so difficult to say goodbye to people who were important in your life. Where I live, we have an event every August that's called "Old Home Week". I always skip the carnival part of it because of my motion sickness...I can't even look at the throw-you-around upside-down "amusement rides" without upchucking. But a cousin's get-together at this time, so great!! We only started this a couple of years ago, mainly because the only time we saw each other was at funerals. These get-togethers to just laugh and enjoy their company are so much better. Are you ready for your trip to Florida next month? Hope your vision problems have lessened. (And BTW, I can't get that picture of your son in a previous blog out of my mind....age doesn't blind me! LOL)