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Stroke Survivor - female
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  • Birthday 10/21/1956

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    Gardening (we grow alot of our own veggies), I worked in Engineering as a drafter/cad drafter for 40 yrs, then worked as a waitress in a tourist village for 2 yrs and had the most fun.
    I make pinecone flowers and glass plate flowers, bird feeders and totums when I can.
    I Love to fish, camp in a camper (no tent camping), and all outdoor stuff.
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  1. Hello y’all. It’s been a while since I’ve been here. A lot has been going on. First and foremost I got my Lil Dude to keep me company. I also got served divorce papers. I was somewhat overwhelmed for a couple days but I’m trying to stay on track. It really didn’t come as a surprise but he didn’t even ask if we could work it out. In the whole year I was gone, I only talked to him 2 times on the phone. It was always text. He wouldn’t answer my calls. I’m pretty sure if I had gone back I would still be going thru it. He didn’t want to be married to a disabled wife. That was apparent. I’m sad about getting a divorce but it’s only because of the process not the divorce. I will write more later.
  2. And.......when they say “I forget too”. Ok, forget I said anything. “Here’s your sign”.
  3. Now wait minute y’all, it is as complimentory as we Southerners can get under the circumstances. Lol
  4. Tracy you just keep hanging in there. The blas don’t last as long as they used to with me. So maybe they won’t with you either. A lot has happened in my life as well.
  5. Nope not me. No snake venom No spider bites No bugs No No No. I haven't learned to run yet. But if a spider gets on me I may learn real fast.
  6. Lookin Good!
  7. Along with the different hats we wear as a wife, mother and extrordinaire, the hats for caregiver are vast compared. I was that caregiver for 10 years to my late husband who had stage 4 lymphoma. Not the same, but not different either. Now that I am on the other side, I can see the hardships on both sides. I'm so sorry. But you may want to put that fishing hat on of your dads, throw a line out (no bait, you don't really want to catch anything) and sit back and enjoy the moment. Maybe make some turtle soup, but beware of the hare in it. Love ya girl
  8. absolutely Love it
  9. Sue I was a caregiver for my late husband for 10 years when he had cancer. Everyday was a new day. Just get thru it. Wake up and start another new day. I gladly did it.
  10. I'm sorry honey. Hang in there. We're here for you.
  11. Stroke wife, I was a caregiver for my late husband (stage 4 Lymphoma) for 10 years. I know caregiving a stroke survivor is different. I are one. I wasn't then. The end goal is never quite the same, however the process is alike in many ways. Just getting thru each day can be a struggle with everything that has to be done on top of the everyday stuff. Its Overwhelming. I was happy to just get thru each day. Fall into bed, sleep, get up, do it again. You know turtle soup with a little hare in it is better than elephant. LOL
  12. The summer where I live is very hot so I only had trouble in the winter, but after my strokes, its all the time. I must wear the softest socks. I cannot wear terry cloth on my feet, unless I turn them inside out. I wear rubber rain/garden boots year round. Those things are cold. I just started using this cream called CeraVu on my heals and the cracking seemed to start clearing up immediately. Its expensive, but cheaper than a dr. visit. Kelli, thank you Tracy, I also do research on Raynaud's and try to find out what different things to try alleviate the symptoms. And on top of that I have the neuropathy in my left foot and calf. Its a crap shoot if ya ask me. What works one day seems like it doesn't work the next time. I hope we all find some relief soon.