GreenQueen

Stroke Survivor - female
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  1. Oh Pam... You are survivor and caregiver wrapped up in one package... I have just complained to my husband that I would love for him to empty the dishwasher washer occasionally or hang out a load of washing without being asked...now I feel like a *beep*. My heart breaks for you Pam. What to do? Has he seen a counsellor at all? Would be helpful if he understood you better... Love and hugs to you my lovely...
  2. Asha your husband is wise beyond his years. True fact, why do we need to label things? It is what it is.
  3. Kelli, my son tried to cook pasta in the microwave the other day without water. Even though it’s not mould, we cannot get rid of the smell, not matter what we try. Hope you have better results!
  4. Deigh I live three streets back from the beach, which has a beautiful footpath all along it (3km) and picnic tables etc. Hardly ever go, but it’s beautiful. Saying that, my dream is to live right on the beach. I don’t think I could ever live far from the beach. We have the most beautiful sunsets. Friends are always posting photos of sunsets over the water on Facebook. Even though, as I say, I don’t do the beach often (too unsteady these days) I have my dreams. Whoever wins lotto first, we will split it and both live out our dreams!
  5. Pam, you and your son are such a blessing to that dear lady.
  6. Sue, I’m sure his children would have really appreciated you being there, when you were needed most. God certainly knows what we can handle, and who we need to be with when the going gets tough. I hope the funeral wasn’t too painful for you, but more a celebration of his life.
  7. That’s beautiful Asha. You truly have a wonderful hubby.
  8. Ruth, I have struggled to find words for your previous posts, as I still do. William was so blessed to have you by his side. He is now free of his daily struggle, as are you. Much love and many prayers as you search for your new normal, with William no longer by your side but always in your heart. God’s Blessings to you.
  9. Tracy, I think one reason you talk about your stroke, is because you are thinking out loud. Trying to make sense of it. Making sure you aren’t going it alone. I liken it to people talking about other things, like falling pregnant, a wedding, a breakup...we all vent and think out loud. Stroke talk is no different, unfortunately that’s not how it’s perceived. Even by us. We are definitely too hard on ourselves. When people ask me how I am, I will tell them, but then immediately ask them how they are etc. No words for your stepmother. I’m glad you have made the decision to ignore her antics. They are doing you no good whatsoever. Thinking of you. xxx
  10. My daughter is very artistic. Amongst other things, I would like her to get her diploma as an art therapist. It would do her good, as well as others. Kelli, you mentioned detailed questions requiring detailed answers...definitely a big problem. It’s worse when these questions come from doctors etc.
  11. Good for you Tracy. I think for own own sanity we need to be ‘rude’. Being nice all the time just doesn’t cut it. Pam...handle it yourself??? Really? And you are the one that feels rude? We live in a mixed up world.
  12. Each step we take, each smile...all a gift from God. You have accepted these gifts with much joy, Sue. You’ve made your heart glad to be alive. You are awesome.
  13. I had to talk to someone at the bank the other day, wish I’d let it go to voicemail. I couldn’t word...she kept sighing and trying to guess what I was going to say. Worst. Phone call. Ever.
  14. Tracy...there is so much stress in your life. Yet you still show up here and help others. You are truly amazing. Lots of love and hugs to you and your family.
  15. You go, Tracy! I have to say, I reckon people who work in jobs like that, dealing with unwell people, need to pass a test for how well they deal with said people! Can make all the difference to someone's day.
  16. Sue, late to the party, but I hope you went out and had coffee!
  17. Asha! A few weeks from the accident...you still going ok? God was certainly holding your hand that day!
  18. Happy Anniversary GreenQueen!

  19. I sure will let you know how it goes!
  20. So I'm not Canadian...but in 20 weeks I will be for a month! We are super excited about having a white Christmas in Quebec city and celebrating new Year at lake Louise! Hoping to get some ice hockey in! Go flames!
  21. Sarah There can be no words to describe the pain you must be in. In time, may memories of your beloved son bring happiness to your heart. Janelle xx
  22. I'm from Western Australia. 45.1 here the other day! Not that I knew. I didn't venture outside! We are about 4 hours from Perth. We live in a lovely spot, about 10 minutes on my scooter to town. Janelle x