Ken

Hi ya'll First I'd like to thank you all for the replies. Your various view points have given me a whole new perspective on this issue of 'caring too much'. It must be tough to be on the outside and not knowing even if she can trust what I say about myself. I do owe her a debt I can never fully repay. Thanks Jean for the bit of 'chewing' you so beautiful did. I had/have a lot more than that comming for being so insensitive and not considering what she is going through. Thank you all for the reassurance that things will improve. Or at least change. Make me feel a bit more comfortable. As always Ken

Hi ya'll I've run into something that is bugging me terribly. My fiancee seems to think only of me as a stroke, or aftermath of a stroke. Everthing seems to revolve around that d*mned stroke since it happened. I make a telephone call to her, that is not scheduled, simply to tell her I loved her. She panics and thinks I am calling to tell her I had another stroke, or that someone else is using my cell phone to tell her I had one. I realize that there probably is nothing I can do to change that attitude but it drives me nuts. Thanks for listening. as always Ken