Hi Leah:
Every thing I just read on this thread sounds so familiar. It is hard to know that you have some deficits, while everyone around you tell your the same as before. That is what happens with my family and friends also. I had a ischemic stroke last September, and like you I am trying to "fit" a new me in old skin!
My only suggestion is keep plugging on....and come and visit this site often. The folks here are wonderful and supportive.....keep me sane many days!!
Sarah