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HI,jean, That sounds funny, My intention is not to lump all caregivers into onebasket. Just the ones who say " "their not the person I married" If I were a caregiver I know a wimp is not what I would be your onesided analogy is true. I have seen a therapist. They told me to find a support group so here Iam. Jean by the way if my comments don't apply to you just ignore them that goes to everybody.Frankly, I expected some back lash the truth hurts.don't be so uptite it's only my opinion. Regards, isokrzy

survivors are supposed to be impulsive not caregivers allof a sudden they don't recognize their spouse how impulsive is that J stern that is exactly what I said without all the sugar coating this subject infuriates me because I live it. If i'm so different how come my babies still recognize me as daddy and love me even more? Why? unconditional love too many spouses only recognize the contributions the other partner provided I loved my wife unconditionally when she did'nt provide much to the relationship I could have been a runner B.S. I had the looks, youth,carizma,money I stuck with it I expect the same respect! now its tough and you wimps go running,selfish! is what its called like it or not isokrzy

Quality control my *beep* I think its a bunch of bunk most times Only in the most sever cases will someone flip a personality. I think this term was developed by caregivers at all levels to camoflage their helplessness and or inadequate abilities in relating to someone who needs so much of their attention.We survivors are very needy not bi-polarquality control cop out in my opinion I'm sure it's difficult to be a care giver, but in the case of spouse care I say suck it up for better or worse baby now its worse time step up to the plate youcan't have your cake and eat it to.How would you like it if the shoe were on the other foot? panzies, isokrzy

Donna, I have experienced this problem I have heard my wife use the same words about meIt makes me sad for the both of you I would love to discuss this because I don't understand my wife now and deeply resent her. this is a hell unimaginable sent me into deep depression much better now. I fear divorce because we comunicate by snide remarks Its obvious he is not the man I guarntee you he feels used and discarded by you email me if you want to discuss in detail isokrzy