Molly you and your husband are in my prayers. Your story sounds a lot like mine. Being so far away from my fiance and I would call every night and say I love you and they never told him. Now I pray his children keep him posted. Please keep my fiance and our family in your prayers as well. It is two months post stroke and he is still not moving much but he has come off the vent and has been off. That is great news. He has since moved from the L tack to a nursing home but I am so scared. God bless you. I pray everything works out. Keep me posted please.