I am so fortunate & lucky to be married to my soulmate & love of my life by sheer great luck. I know prestroke I was too blind & arrogant to realize that, but post stroke I am realizing how lucky I have got. my weak point is I never notice small things which gets done automatically without me doing anything about it like garbage done emptying, many small things around the house which does not even come under my radar. For me life runs smoothly since husband fairy does everything I miss lol. recently I had my stress test & it came abnormal & since I have history of stroke my cardiologist was more proactive & ordered heart catherization to make sure all my heart arteries are free of plaque. ofcourse when I read more about it online I was scared of the procedure, I didn't realize hubby was also scared of it. I made sure the previous day all my chores were taken care of & told him about things I usually take care around the house & made him aware of all kido's activities of the summer. One would think the way I was telling him things that I might never come home, procedure was done on wednesday & all my arteries in good condition no plumbing needed there, so now just have to rest for couple of days till my wrist heals from the puncture site. I was laughing & telling hubby how scared I was & he said sweetest thing to me he said I would have died had anything happened to you on surgery day. he had gone to temple just day earlier for my safety. I am in cloud nine since he said, since he shows his love through actions & not words, so its big deal that he told me this. I love him so much & I m so lucky to have him in my life.