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My Current Normal


DaveO

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I thought about calling this blog “My New Normal” but I’m convinced there is still a lot of recovery left in me.

 

I still get extremely tired by the end of each day.

 

Most nights I'm able to help my kids with questions on their algebra homework.

 

My vision is not was it was. I got my first eyeglasses. They work well for reading. I don’t like to wear them, so I don’t unless I really need to.

 

My hearing is not perfect. It was starting to go before the stroke anyway.

 

The strength in my right side is sloooooowly coming back. I’ve learned to be patient. I can only get stronger.

 

My artery is 50% blocked from the injury and it will probably never get better. I’m looking forward to getting into a batting cage. I have a score to settle with a baseball. I have an appointment with my neurologist on the 31st. I hope she says I can take a few swings. Even if I get permission to turn my neck I’ll be happy.

 

I’m 99% sure that I will NOT have another stroke. I’m still working on that last percent.

 

I’m not as cold as I was just a few months ago. I am dressing in layers.

 

My handwriting is very sloppy. When I type, I get a mystery space before the letter e. This is strange because my right side was affected by stroke.

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Hi Dave,

 

It was strangely comforting and inspiring to me to read this entry, I hope it is to you too. Go patiently with yourself. My bet is that you will get "there".

 

Jamie

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Dave:

 

I love the way you are thinking about your current normal, you are on right track. things change every day & it improves every day. keep on working towards your small goals , achieve them & then move to next goal. more you do for yourself, better your life will be.

 

Asha

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Dave: accepting and recognizing deficits hopefully will help you set realistic goals. Sounds like you have reached that level of recovery and are moving forward. I do so wish Bruce would start and set some goals, on his physical progress.

 

He is working very hard on his cognitive improvement and I guess, if that is his priority, I must accept it.

 

Your post reinforces that there are many aspects of recovery and all need to be touched on. Thank you, Debbie

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You're improving everday dave, even if you can't see it. inch stones will become milestones in due time. Never Give Up!

-Will

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Thanks for updating Dave. Life is starting to go well for you, the progress is good but the confidence you are showing now is even better.

 

Sue.

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