Ruth: good news. It is a tough adjustment - you have been doing it for over 30 years, plus it is a part of you, something you worked hard for and were accomplished at. That is something Stroke can not take away from you, so it is precious. And I do think down the road, there will be opportunities available - on your terms - that you haven't had time to consider or even think of.

Then I look to the progress William has made in just three weeks. You know, Ruth, it was almost like it was pre-destined. All that hard work and stress, those sleepless nights. And finally, when he has recovered to the point that you can consider new things, things that were so much more difficult 4 years ago, or even unable to consider; now are possible. And you have the time to do them, try stuff out. And William is at such a point where this is now realistic. His balance is good, obviously he is walking well - less prep and concern.

I am so happy for both of you. This may well be the best outcome for you both in a very long time. Enjoy and glad the stress is resolving. Debbie

Ruth, it sounds like all is working out for the best. I can almost see Wiliam smiling everyday.

Enjoy your retirement. Life is too short and you have been working a long time.

Julie

Ruth, you got me wondering how William handles his weak arm while he is playing ball in the pool??? I would think he moves the weak arm/side from the motions he has throwing or hitting the ball back to you with his good hand?!?!!!

Then how is he standing all that time with the weak leg/side????? If I were to do that my weak leg would give out for sure even with the water helping to hold your body up!!!

Have fun it relieves grief!!!

I think you ended up at home at the perfect moment, and you are seeing the payoff now!

Ruth :

change is never easy to adjust, but ofcourse it provides lot of growth opportunity in our life. I agree with Debbie that this change has turned out to be blessing for william & as he improves more you can look into stress-free other job opportunities. For me job loss was tougher than my stroke since so much of my self worth was attached to how much money I made, so my job loss made me feel worthless till I found out how much difference I was making in life of my loved ones and at the end of the day that' what matters. I amsure you will find new door of opportunity in your life which will make you more happy.

Asha