Cindy: honey, one day at a time. Please do find some time to grieve. It is so important. When you get hit with the one-two, it is so hard to pull yourself up. But for Mike and you, it has to be done.

Please take some time off for Cindy. I know Mike is easy but you want to be with him. For right now, you need some time on your own to sort through where you are at, what you are feeling.

Whatever works, I know Mike will be on board - so if it is walking, sitting outside with a coffee, gardening, window shopping - allow yourself that time, please.

Check in. Thinking and praying for you. Debbie

I think we may be in the part of our lives where we just keep losing things. It sure doesn't help to know that. Hope you can get a break from this frequent pattern, so hard to stand up under one bad thing after another. Prayers coming your way.

I am so sorry - there isn't much more to say - since there is no control over death --- except think of you … nancyl

Take time to grieve. It is appropriate to farewell each of our loved ones, to spend time remembering the good times, to join in with other family members in mourning. I know it is also very hard as a caregiver to find that time. Find an empty space and give yourself over to the grief. It is an essential part of the healing process that is good for right now. Mike may not understand that you have to do this for your own good mental health so excuse yourself to Mike and tell him this is what you need to do.

(((hugs))) from Sue.

So sorry Cindy. You know we all pray for you here and support you. The advice above is good. Take it easy and my prayers to out to you as well.

Julie

Sometimes to us it seems like when it rains it pours and never lets us!!

cindy, i am so sorry for your recent family tragedy. you have had to deal with so much in a short amount of time

please do make time for yourself as the others have told you. i'm sure mike will understand. so take a break. i have you and your family in my prayers.

kimmie

Cindy, you and your brother are in my prayers.

Yvonne