1st Post - Mom's Stroke
My Mom had a hemorrhagic stroke on July 11, 12 days after turning 88. She spent 5 days in Doylestown(PA) Hospital before being transferred to an acute rehabilitation facility for 2 weeks to have speech, occupational, and physical therapies. She was then tranferred to a sub-acute rehabilitation facility for further therapy where she has been for 2 weeks now.
She is responding fairly well to the physical therapies. She is walking over 100 ft. with the walker. She can get dressed with some assistance, and this week she has been upgraded from pureed food to mechanical. She was previously upgraded to regular thin liquids. She doesn't eat as well as they would like. I think it is partly due to the fact that she doesn't like the food. She was always a great cook and she likes food that looks and tastes like it should. Today I brought her a tomato from her garden and she ate the whole thing.
The greatest loss she suffered was cognitive ability. She has some confused talk and mixes people, places, and time perspective. I spend about 4 hours a day with her and I have to say that it is getting better. A month ago it was very stressful to listen to her. Now she has some confusing talk if she is allowed to ramble on her own. When I say or ask anything she knows exactly what I am saying and usually responds appropriately.
Today she talked about the tomato garden, cooking, and the cat. She knows she has not been home for 5 weeks. She said she has been in the present facility for 15 days, which is fairly accurate.
She has always been a homebody and loves being at home. She would rather be in the kitchen cooking a pot of soup than go to Europe. The problem I am having is that she just wants to go home. She doesn't understand why she has to stay in the rehab and I can leave. Every day she gets upset because I am not taking her home. We are working towards discharge and coming home. I am going to live with her and be her caregiver. We are starting family training tomorrow to make sure I have the necessary skills I will need at home. They will also do a home evaluation to recommend what should be done in the home to better accommodate her condition. I explain this to her every day, but she can't accept that she has to be in rehab until she is strong enough and able to come home. She is upset with me every day when I leave.
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