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Five Years already?


Ethyl17

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Yes, dear friends - it has been five years and Colonoscopy time is here again! Don't bother going back to my blog in 2010 - I'll summarize: "we won't be doing this again!" LOL. Well, yes we are.

 

Some things have changed over the last five years: Bruce has developed Type 2 Diabetes and his latest blood work shows he has anemia. Not iron related but he is possibly bleeding from some where. It could be his diet - I try to keep him mostly vegetarian, it could be a lab error but in any case, has to be investigated.

 

Bruce's friend in CA advised that they do a simple specimen every five years and if it comes back negative, no colonoscopy. Well, I tried - LOL. But no go for Bruce - his last colonoscopy had one pre-cancerous polyp and now the anemia.

 

I don't like this Doctor. He tries to be funny and I just don't get it. Also he has no regard for the work this puts on me. He sees GI - not stroke.

 

There is no going home for another 24 hours of prep and clear liquids because Bruce did not "clear." He is diabetic. I had to remind Doctor of the fiasco five years ago and told him that won't happen again. But - and here is the real special part - because we don't know where Bruce is bleeding from, he will have an Endoscopy the same day!! Bruce just won the lottery!

 

Fortunately I have my Julie to guide me through this. Larry has had several Endoscopies and between Larry and Julie, they were able to advise me through the Endoscopy and the after effects.

 

Because Bruce has lower motility (just a gift from stroke), prep will actually start 8 days before the procedure. The 24 hour prep is the same. This medication will get things going, which means we have to stay close to home. I don't have trouble with that, but this comes at a time where I am supposed to be working on more independence for Bruce and "socialization" for Bruce, without me. Well that will be put off.

 

The good news is Bruce moves so much better now. His transfers are pretty much independent. But as all of us know, the BR is not a safe place, so I still have to spot him. I will have to uncover the commode and bed pan, certainly. And we have plenty of bed pads since I purchased extra for our New Mexico trip.

 

I am thinking jigsaw puzzles and lots of books. Plus I think I will try to get him back in the kitchen - maybe some cookies and soups/stews put up for the winter.

 

Stay tuned - updates to follow! Debbie

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You know it doesn't feel or seem like I been on here since 2005 and even volunteered here back in 06 and 07 until I look at my little clock Steve Mallory gave me for my time I tried to make others lives more livable back then me included....

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Fred: I know! When the notice came from the GI clinic, I was amazed. I had to check with Julie to make sure it was correct - LOL. Larry had his about the same time.

 

Colleen: even Carl said tonight "It really is no big deal." My response - "every try it with a stroke survivor?" That ended the conversation - LOL. I am such a sweetheart.

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I just got invited to a charity banquet the night of mine, and luckily was offered a ride too.  Hope I'm up to it myself.  I was already worried about the night before, now I have to worry about that night in addtion  ;-)

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I have always wonder how you do what you do. You do it with so much grace and fill with 

wisdom.  Doctors, some  have no common sense.

 

Wish you and Bruce well.

 

Yvonne

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Oh Yvonne - that was so nice of you and made me smile. I try - don't have as much grace as you think, LOL. But thank you for that.

 

Yesterday we started the stimulant pill - so far, no emergencies. Saturday starts the change in diet. We having fun yet? No, the games do not begin until next Tuesday! Stay tuned - updates to follow. Debbie

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Your love for Bruce gives you strength Ethyl. You are Prepared and you are good at thinking on your feet. I have faith you will not be overwhelmed.

 

I pray that Bruce will have a good outcome for all tests. And that you will have peace while waiting for results.

 

All your sacrifice is a beautiful refection of who you are and who Bruce is. This is not easy but you Teach us all to persevere in love.

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