why do we view change as bad
Its weekend so time to think deep thoughts. I was thinking about how we are all averse of changes in our life specially unplanned or unexpected changes which shows up in our life like illness,accidents or job-loss. how all these changes rattles our boat & we get so unsettled, upset about it, without knowing future, we just hate all unwelcome change. I know I did it when I faced my stroke in my life. I thought my life was ruined & I will never find joy in living again.
I understand with planned changes in life you find yourself in control but with unplanned changes in life you feel completely out of control & don't have faith that something good is going to come out of this seemingly bad tragedy in your life. what I have learned after going through drastic change in my own life,by trusting the unknown & doing just one right thing at a time, you do come out of it & realize beauty that change brought in your own life. our elders were right when they say let the time pass & you will realize its not as worst thing as you have imagined in your life. wouldn't life will be interesting if instead of hating changes we embrace them thinking what is this event is trying to teach me in my life about myself.