I don't have your situation, but if I were to 'run into' or across the "man" I lost my virginity to, I'd feel like castrating him. Obviously, he didn't make a wonderful impression on me!

i think that the man who i lost my virginity to might be doing 25 to life in Attica or Dannemora, or might be dead. if i ran into him on the street today, i probably wouldn't recognize him. if i ran into him, so what? what's the big deal? i i no longer have an emotional reaction to running into my ex-husband, who cares if i ran into every man i slept with?

John, my husband, does not remember who he lost his virginity with, or how old he was, although he knows it was after the time he got kicked out of Catholic school but before he dropped out of public high school-somewhere between 14 and 17, probably closer to 14.

the only thing that's important now is that neither John nor i have sex with anyone else. neither of us have a double standard concerning sex,although i do tease him about being a '*beep*' because of all of the women he had sex with whom he doesn't remember fully during the years that he drank and did drugs.

sandy

ME TO!!!

stan-are you really as big a '*beep*' as John??? maybe i should get him to come here so that you guys can discuss this. after all, he IS being worked up for a stroke (because of his traumatic brain injury from the car accident), so he probably qualifies for membership

sandy