hey Ruthie:

its ok to have pity party once a while, but don't make too many, you are mom, wife too many responsibility on your shoulder, you and ur hubby are both wheels of your life wagon, so be strong, and enjoy every moment with your family, if your hubby comes home early, you will get chance to cuddle with him. come and say hello in chat room sometime.

lots of love

Asha (mom,wife , 35 yr old stroke survivir)

thanks for the words of encouragement, Asha. They are much appreciated!

ruthie

Hi Ruthie, hope you are feeling better now.

I find when I over do the next day is more difficult.. to deal with.

I have my dogs to keep me company, but I know sometimes I phone my husband at work or a friend to chat for a few minutes. Also coming here and reading or posting can keep you occupied.

Bonnie