I think manopause hits when you finally slow down enough for it to catch up. Here we call it "mid-life crisis" so somewhere between 35 and 45 you get to the spot where you say those things like "Is this all there is to life" and "Where do I go from here?".

It's not a bad thing to look at your life and see how you can make it better. We all have room for improvement.

Sue.

Here, too, Sue. Male menopause is called the mid-life crisis.

Good luck with that Stan

Jean

you can have a 'mid'-life' crises at any time, and be of any sex. it's called an 'identity crises' i had one after i stroked, and i wasn't even perimenopausal.

talk to people, get into therapy, and reevaluate your priorities.

i think you will come out of it a happier, more serene, more peaceful person.

sandy

well thank you ladies for your responses