I have been reading all the blogs about love, how it changes, valentines day, and people mistaking us for their daughters instead of their wives. Today is our 18th wedding anniversary and I was thinking of all the things we cannot do or we do not have in our lives right now and it was sort of sad. I brought Rod home a rose and he had a card waiting for me. He had tried to write something special like he use to do all the time before his stroke. He had the biggest smile because he had tried and then he told me what it was suppose to say. "Happy 18th anniversary, Can I have another 18 more?" Love does change in our situations I believe it just gets more real. I still get a flutter in my heart and can't imagine life without him even when it's hard. That's what love is! Happy Valentines Day everyone