Another Let Down!!!
Sometmes I wonder why I keep fighting?
I took Chris to Moss Outpatient Rehab to their seating clinic. He was having some mild problems due to his field cut with his vision. Nothing that I don't think could have been corrected with continued practice and patience. The PT also told me that he has "left sided neglect." Because of these 2 problems she has refused to recommend him for a power chair.
I tried to explain to her that he is never left alone per Dr.'s orders and that if he would have any problems someone would be with him to help him. I also tried to explain to her that the power chair would be a big help to me. I told her that I wasn't getting any younger and getting him up and down ramps is getting more and more difficult. The chair would be a bigger help to me.
She has still flately denied him. I am dealing right now with alot of anger. Chris and I are becoming very homebound. The only time we go out anymore is to go to the doctors. I cannot manage him by myself - I need help to get him in and out of the house. This situation is driving me crazy.
I talked to his sister today and explained the situation to her. She had said that if I could locate a used power chair that the family would all pitch in and help pay for it. That's great - but I always feel like we are in debt to them.
I know that there are people that are in worse condition than Chris is - how do they get their chairs? I have contacted several vendors and all state that he will have to go through a seating clinic to get approved. Will all clinics do the same that Moss did?
We can't live the rest of our lives only in this house. Life needs to be lived........it can't be stopped just because Chris had a stroke.
Hopefully I will figure out what to do..........................
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