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Independance continue's!!!!!!!!!


cindy

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I know this might sound trivial but I can't help but to write about Bob's improvements. Last week he found a nail in the tire of the SUV he drives and he went to Firestone and had it fixed on his own. Woo hoo!!

 

I didn't even know about it until I got home and he told me what he had done. I praised, praised, praised him and told everyone, everywhere we went about what he had done. I think it encourages him to continue to do things without me. Awesome!!

 

We went to the neurologist the other day and told him too! He also has a hand written message in his wallet that he had a stroke and it affected his speech. My name and cell phone number is on it in case he tries to get something across to someone when I'm not with him.

 

He went to Sears repair center a couple of weeks ago and he couldn't decide if I wanted them to order a vaccuum cleaner belt and have it shipped to us so they called me and it worked perfect. When I showed the neurologist what we had written in the wallet he was surprised and said what a great idea.

 

Anyway I'm just so happy that he just keeps getting better and better because just in case I go before he does he's learning to do seemingly small things on his own. YAY! :D

 

Cindy :)

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This is such great news for a stroke survivor -

I would never discourage him, and encourage him to keep doing more :friends: To survive a stroke takes GUTS and it sounds like Bob really is on his way to a total recovery

:blush:

June, a 20 year survivor

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Independence, I feel is ONE GIANT STEP FOR THE SURVIVOR TOWARDS FREEDOM. but sometimes this kind of behaviour is observed by some professionals, and family members are a person who is not grateful for their help or that this person is stubborn and strong-willed

June :2cents:

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Thanks everyone. You have all encouraged me to keep on keeping on. And I will never stop praising him for the things he accomplishes. Love ya's,

 

Cindy :)

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very important do feel independent and also able to contribute to everyday tasks that they are able to do,,, I always tell hubby that he helps me so much and that I can't do everything so is so helpful when he pitches in.. we have a communication problem at times so things can be interpreted wrong and can cause a riff in our day.. when he does good he is proud of himself but he has not gained back his confidence level, it will come with encouragement...I told him it will take time but it will come and now he realizes it most times and then others he doesn't...got to read up more on stroke to deal with this lack of communication any pointers???

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