I chose to keep Ray home and his family ignores me too. :Tantrum:

I get sick of people saying what a great job I am doing. Sometimes I am, sometimes I am not. :cheer: or :juggle:

Hang in there, vent when you need to. You are welcome to anytime. :oops:

Sue. :friends:

I think you should make copies of your poem, frame them and give them to family as Christmas gifts....just kidding---I think---but it would be tempting. Only another caregiver can really understand the depth of emotions expressed up above. We hear you.

Jean

:hug:

I've often asked myself the question? If I had any idea beforehand how difficult this job would be, would I have taken it upon myself? The answer is always "YES." And, I'm sure in your case you would say the same.

We learn as caregivers to pick ourselves up by our bootstraps, dust off all the negatives, and go on caring for our loved ones - one day at a time. You will find the long-term rewards are well worth it.

Your mother is very lucky to have a daughter who cares so much for her; but please remember to take some time for yourself. I know that's always easier said than done, but very necessary for you.

Take care ((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))

Sarah