Well, hello everyone. It's been some time since I was here. A lot has happened since I last wrote.

I finally, FINALLY got my seperation agreement done on Jan. 25. Between lawyers not caring (but will bill me for their time) and a man that didn't want to give up his 'control' on things. At last the fight is over and maybe we can become somewhat civil with one another. :Clap-Hands:

My mother-in-law died on Jan. 6. She put up a good fight then just gave up. She found out that she had leukeminia in her blood and the fight was over. At least she got to see her baby (my ex) before she left this world. He showed up on the 3rd. It's been difficult for my kids - losing a loved one is never easy, but they are pulling through well. I was there for them through the entire process (she was my mother-in-law) and even hugged their father to show my condolenses. I will miss the woman - we had some good fights her and I. As I told her sister, you can't have two stubborn, hard-headed woman and not expect some fighting. But she was the one to show me how not to give up the fight when God throws a "monkey wrench" at you and screws up your life. Actually he just wants you to lead a different path (this is how I look at this stroke business).

Started the dating atmosphere and I'm not sure that I want to jump back into the pool. Some men are!!@@!@! Enough said. Maybe some day "my Prince Charming" will show up. Won't hold my breath, nor will I sit around waiting for him.

I am back at our Stroker's Club here in Oakville and just yesterday some of the volunteers (wonderful men and women) decided that because I have lost weight (only 10lbs left to go) I should teach the other strokers what I do in the pool. So starting next week, I will be teaching excercises that I do to any in the group that wants to learn. This group was and still is my reason for saying "Thank God its Friday!"

Next month I have the golf season to contend with. I am the secretary for "Golf for the Physically Disabled" and I have to start typing, photocopying, blah, blah, blah and get letters out to existing members and any that want to join. Golf starts in May and goes until October. Keeps me busy and I love it.