hey Kristi:

wow lot of drama for your Indian Aunty for the first time my life over romantic drama I am speechless but I will still try since giving advice is easy part. Kristi about boyfriend drama only things I will suggest is any of these guys are husband material, if not then why waste time in these things. time is priceless should be better used in studying which will take you better place in life. that's how I look at all these love stories at age 15. Don't be mad at me. my excuse is I am from India where having boyfriend before marriage is BIG NO NO in my times which was in 80s.

one more thing sweety I realized boys are easy to raise then girls. if you the rolemodel can still fight with your mother then I shiver thinking about other teenager girls.

hey maybe you should hang out with your girlfriends at home such that your mom feels less lonely. that's what I do wih my son,right now he listens since he is 11.

I am so happy you blogged Kristi. I missed you around here. BTW another funny thing Aunties in India are pretty big ones, and for the record I am slim & trim Auntie. I hope to hear from you soon, see once you have boyfriend in mix there will be more melodrama in life versus just studies and your clubs. so now I am confused if you will have oyfriends then there will be more blogs but only studies then no blogs, well what should I choose. now as your aunty who wish good for her internet daughter. I wish you choose studies over boys.

AshaAunty

Kristi,

This is Mema Vi. Do not, I repeat, DO NOT allow boys to come into your bedroom - ever. I raised 2 boys and 2 girls and this was not allowed.

As for your Mom, she just wants you to have a good life so she is trying to give you the benefit of her experience, as most Mothers do. School will be starting soon and you will be busy again. Concentrate on that.

Mema Vi

Kristi,

I'll tell you the same thing I tell my 16 year-old son so you can roll your eyes and tell me to mind my business and cut the drama like he does. Keep in mind all advice from your friends is usually motivated by making sure you don't end up with better than them and that you are still around and available at their disposal. Trust your mother she's the only one who loves you unconditionally and has no ulterior motives...doesn't seem like that now because you fight alot. You'll see as you get older she'll always be your best friend. I'm an only child too and fought with my mother horribly when I was your age. She's still my best friend, we go get our nails done, go shopping, she's still the first person I have to tell when something happens.

As far as boys give them a run for their money always remember ANY GUY THAT'S EASY TO LOSE ISN'T WORTH HAVING.He wasn't that into you to begin with it's always better if he loves you more than you love him. Enough drama I'll shut up.

Maria :hug:

hi kristi. you are at a very difficult age in your life, boys, parents, school, friends. its hard to manage it all. but as another 1 of your aunties, mom will always be on your side and will protect her baby girl no matter what. boys n friends will come n go. your education will always be with you and will get you far in this world today. you will be gone to college, before to long and your mom will not see you as often so spend time with her while you can. now i've said my piece and i will stop preaching. i was 16 once too and i wont even tell you where i was in my life at that age. keep your studies up and be smart in your decisions. i hope you have a great school year. remember your aunties love n care about you.