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My stroke was in March/84. I was in the hospital until june/84. The following winter, I was back at work and still living with my parents. Some people at work were planning an evening ski trip and since I had been a skier pre stroke I wanted to try again. I told my parents this over dinner and they did not take it well. My parents are pessimists and could not fathom me going skiing with one side of me paralyzed. That evening, I went to the basement and took out my ski boots. I trid to put them on but with just one hand I couldn't manage it. My Dad came down to see what I was doing and I asked him to give me a hand. He refused and told me "if you can't put your boots on you can't ski. They had won the battle but not the war. I didn't go skiing with my friends at the office but that week I heard about " the handicapped skiing association" I called up and got all the information and an appointment for the following weekend for a fitting for specialized equipment for the physically impaired. Turned out the only specialized equipment I needed were short skis tied together at the front. So I was also given a schedule which I had to adhere to because 2 volunteers were asigned to me and I couldn't make them go there for nothing. I skied for 2 seasons until my ski suit didn't fit anymore. I had gained a lot of weight and couldn't afford another suit. When I had the kids for the weekend I would bring them with me. They skied too so while I was doing my thing, they were having fun skiing. They were so proud of their mother and it was a good life lesson for them "when you want to you can".

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Oh how wonderful Marie. Even prestroke I never tried to ski - I think I would've either broken every bone in my body or turned into a human snowball.

 

I'd like to try bowling - I used to enjoy going though I wasn't all that good - had a wicked curve ball - had gutter balls mastered but always had fun and a good laugh. Obviously was not league material. never quite coordinated before and definitely not now lol

 

What a terrific example to set for your children.

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Marie:

wow no wonder you are long time survivor. you didn't give in to your stroke and did what you loved doing.I tried skiing prestroke once but hated it, though introduced my child post stroke and he loves it and I enjoy watching him through ski lodge. every year we make romantic dates by taking him for skiing every saturday. hubby & I sit in ski lodge & usually have hot chocolate & enjoy our kido having fun on snow. I usually take picnic lunch. tthose times are one of the best times of the year with hubby.

 

I am sure your kids learnt valuable lesson from their mom.

 

Asha

 

 

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Marie:

wow no wonder you are long time survivor. you didn't give in to your stroke and did what you loved doing.I tried skiing prestroke once but hated it, though introduced my child post stroke and he loves it and I enjoy watching him through ski lodge. every year we make romantic dates by taking him for skiing every saturday. hubby & I sit in ski lodge & usually have hot chocolate & enjoy our kido having fun on snow. I usually take picnic lunch. tthose times are one of the best times of the year with hubby.

 

I am sure your kids learnt valuable lesson from their mom.

 

Asha

Thank you Asha for your kind words. I think that taking a picnic lunch to the slopes with hubby is very romantic. Its nice that you are encouraging your son in something that interests him even if you can't join him. You are a very good mom to kido. don't give up, those are things he will remember always no matter where his life takes him.

 

Marie-Claire (mcd)

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Oh how wonderful Marie. Even prestroke I never tried to ski - I think I would've either broken every bone in my body or turned into a human snowball.

 

I'd like to try bowling - I used to enjoy going though I wasn't all that good - had a wicked curve ball - had gutter balls mastered but always had fun and a good laugh. Obviously was not league material. never quite coordinated before and definitely not now lol

 

What a terrific example to set for your children.

 

I tried very hard to always show them a good example. Time will tell if they learned what I tried to teach them. Thank you for your comment.

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