Sue: I understand what you are saying so well. I went thru all the same feelings before Dale passed away. You put all my thoughts into words. Hang in there, as I know you will. The caregiving while Dale was in the nursing home was so different than being the hands on 24/7 caregiver the one in charge which was me for so long. I, too, thought a support group for that kind of caregiving would have been a good thing. Now I am just trying to find out who I am since I am no longer a caregiver. That is different from the grief I feel. I lost my husband and I lost my job. Where do I go from here? love to you. Shirley