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Pearls

Stroke Survivor - female
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  • Birthday 11/11/1950

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    04-14-2014
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    Pearl
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  1. Pearls

    Thank you everyone. I am now healed and walking on foot. Lessons learned: Must be proactive and ask for Pain Specialist. Finally came up with pain cocktail that helped. Not every doctor is a specialist in everything. Yes, having neurological trauma can affect your reactions to pain meds or lack of reaction. On another note my very experienced Orthopedist thought that all stroke survivors were on one opioid or another already because his sister was. I expressed my shock at his assumption.
  2. Pearls

    Mine comes and goes. More so if I am tired.
  3. Pearls

    I'm not an expert but it sounds too long to me. Mine isn't that high.
  4. Pearls

    Had a bad fall and broke my ankle. On the pain scale I have been a 10. Was seen in the ER via 911. Prescribed oxycodone. It did nothing. Prescribed dilaudid which is 5 times stronger. Took five days to kick in and take the edge off. So now finally I am at an 8 to 9.Is there something about stroke damage that interferes with pain killers that affect CNS? Four different docs implied that I was scamming for drugs because these pain killers work on everyone else. still waiting to see orthopedic surgeon.
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    I've actually heard good things about this. Have to do it often. Would like to hear more about it.
  6. Since everyone is obviously using the computer, you've probably searched the youtube videos on stroke. One day I found one on getting in and out of the bathtub by a young good looking man. I was very focused on the video when my husband walked in the room and alarmingly asked me what I was doing. I tried explaining that it was part of my stroke recovery education and I was just doing the best I could to learn adaptive skills. I'm not sure he believed me because now he's always looking over my shoulder when I am on the computer. It really was a good video.
  7. Pearls

    Seems to me you are trying to reason with someone who cannot reason. Always a lost cause. You are reacting to Dan as if he were able to control who he is. Might I suggest that he is unable to control his personality and decisions. Stroke can affect any part of the brain including emotions, personality, decision making, incontinence. This is what brain damage looks like. Don't take it personally. It doesn't have to make sense. You are blaming him which is causing you more anger, frustration, and resentment. At some point you need to let go. No matter how much you love him love is not going to make it better. That is a harsh reality. I watched my mother go thru Alzheimers and she became very belligerent towards those she was closest to. You cannot take it personally. I also had a friend with brain damage from a car accident, same thing. Is Dan on meds for his anxiety, depression? That is the first thing I would address. If he is, perhaps they need to be changed to something else. Talk to his doctor. From me to you, many hugs.
  8. I've gone from being a good fast typist to a one finger typist. Frustrating but I am getting faster. You are still building on your inherent skills. That is exciting. Therapists come in all shapes and sizes, some better than others. I wish someone would have given me a paint brush in rehab. All I got was a broom and a mop. ;)
  9. Pearls

    I understand your frustrations. I hear patients go on and on about how wonderfully they were treated by hospital staff and then I wonder if something is wrong with me because I have had a few terrible experiences at the hands of staff and cannot always say the same thing as others. Most of my encounters have been good but not all. To expect a patient to be in charge of what a driver does or doesn't do is bizarre. Staff knows better than that. Administrative staff (not nursing) should have taken control and remedied the problem and not quibbled with a drug induced patient. You were their responsibility the second they put you on a bed. There are good IV technicians and poor IV technicians. In a lot of hospitals these days not just anyone is allowed to insert or remove an IV. It is considered a specialty and there are specialized IV teams that travel from patient to patient who know all the tricks on dealing with difficult veins. It also sounds like staff was having a bad day. I try to use humor to diffuse a situation but when that doesn't work I simply ask staff if they are having a bad day and I am usually surprised at what they have to unload. It tends to mellow them out when you extend a hand or an ear to them. You survived it Toots and in the end that is what counts. So sooooooooo happy you are able to walk without pain. This is a looong journey but we are Survivors because we are strong. Hugs and smiles.
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    I've heard mixed reviews but have never tried it. If you do try it, less us know how it goes. I am really curious.
  11. STROKE AWARENESS MONTH -- I have just joined a small local Stroke Support Group at the hospital We have been discussing what we as a small group can do to reach out and increase awareness.  Any suggestions??

     

  12. BLOGS -- Still trying to find my way around the newly designed Strokenet. Is there a comprehensive tutorial? My dh and son are planting trees for me to view out of my forever window. A Golden Maple, an Autumn Blaze Maple and an Austrian Pine tree. Such lovely new colors to feast my eyes on and hopefully they will attract more birds and maybe some new species for me to identify and observe.  I love birdwatching.

  13. Benefits of Stroke --OMG I used to be spitting mad whenever someone used this phrase. It hit a nerve like no other. It's been three years since my stroke and I've learned a few things about myself.  Several months ago I went ziplining. I have trouble walking across a room. If I go somewhere that requires more than going across a room I need a wheelchair.  I was in a rut. I needed a challenge. I have always been afraid of heights and speed. I do not go on carnival rides. Well the bigger the rut, the bigger the challenge. Walking thru the forest to the jump off tree was the most difficult part. Getting hoisted up into the tree on a pulley I had a quiet panic attack. By the time I got up to the jump off platform I had trouble breathing but I kept moving forward. Flying thru the tree tops at 35 MPH turned out to be fun. In fact, I did it three times. It has turned out to be the biggest confidence booster I could have chosen.  If I had not had a stroke and become paralyzed I would not in a million years have chosen to go ziplining in my old life. In my old life I was living in my comfort zone. I was not pushing myself to do extraordinary things. The next thing I learned was that I was living in a confined space in my old life. I have always been a creative person and that is truly where my passion lived. Being able to use only one hand and not very well at that I struggled to find creative outlets for myself. Most creative endeavors require the use of hands. The right side of my brain was damaged during my stroke and they say that is your creative side. Whether or not that is true doesn't really matter. I no longer had the dexterity I once had and it seemed that other parts of the creativity were starting to fade. What an incredible loss of identity to follow after loss of body, loss of job and loss of dreams. Somehow I got elected to be head of my HOA. Probably because no one else wanted to do it. I really didn't want to do it but I'm the kind of person that will step up and do things if no one else will. The HOA became involved in some legal issues and the next thing I knew I was doing legal research............and I enjoyed it. I enjoyed it with a new found passion! Now I am studying to take the LSAT ( the entrance exam for Law School). I don't know if I'll ever go to law school. I'm 66 but who knows. I am loving every minute of studying except I am having trouble holding the pages open in the book and I have to print instead of writing in script. AGAIN I would not have discovered this part of myself if it weren't for my stroke. Am I glad I had a stroke? He** No.   I've become an avid problem solver. I am continually thinking about how to do things differently to make them work. If I can't butter a slice of bread, how can I approach it differently? But it is spilling over into every part of my life, even my relationships. Is that my creative side or is that my analytical side? Some days my mind is full and other days the fatigue hits me. I have to plan ahead for the fatigue and it is a real downer but I am better at adjusting than I used to be. Three years ago the fatigue was always there. Soooo much I have learned about myself, about others, about the brain, about life. This is certainly a different life than I would have chosen but ha-ha, there are some benefits, some new discoveries.

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      Pearls

      One more Benefit I forgot to mention. Prior to my stroke I had a problem with Vertigo. Severe problem, was at the ER three times. Since my stroke the problem has disappeared. Gone.

       

  14. Pearls

    If you make too much, I looooove peanut brittle. I would even buy some from you. Name your price and I am in. I can almost taste it now.
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