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I BELIEVE we all can make a difference in who we are


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I read a blog by Asha named Bozos...It prompted me to submit this blog I received in the mail after reading a post of another member feeling family members of her spouse has gone away leaving her to be the care giver alone! So, here goes!...

 

A birth certificate shows that we were born. A death certificate shows that we died. Pictures show that we lived!

 

I believe...That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other, and just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other!

 

I believe...That we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change! I believe...That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you, every once in awhile and you must forgive them for that. I believe...That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for love!

 

I believe...That you can do something in an instant, that will give you heartaches for life. I believe...That it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be!

 

I believe...That you should leave Loved Ones with words. It may be the last time you see them. I do now believe...That you can keep going long after you think you can't! Anyone agree?

 

I believe...That we are responsible for what We do, no matter how we feel. I believe...That either you control your attitude or it will control you! I believe...That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

 

I believe...That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time. I believe...That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel! I believe...That maturity has more to do with what trying experiences you've had, and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

 

I believe...That it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself! I believe...That no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief. I do now believe...That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become!

 

I believe...That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret because it could change your life forever. I believe...That two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. I believe...That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people that don't even know you. You agree?

 

I believe...That even when you think you have no more to give when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help! I believe...That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent Human Being. I do now believe...That the people you care about most in life are taken from you way too soon!

 

THE HAPPIEST OF PEOPLE DON'T NECESSARILY HAVE THE BEST OF EVERYTHING, THEY JUST MAKE THE MOST OF EVERYTHING THEY HAVE. Would you happen to agree?? Well, I do now! :big_grin:

Fred!

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Fred:

 

thanks for sharing this lovely thoughts. I believe because of thoughts like this you are doing so well in your recovery after solid close to 8 years like me.

 

Asha

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FRED,

NOT MUCH TO ADD, BUT TO SAY, MY STROKE HAS MADE ME A BETTER PERSON AND I CAN HELP OTHERS ALONG THE PATH. THANKS FOR A GREAT BLOG.

-WILL

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