Now that Ray's medication issues have been resolved, on to the the aide situation
After Pat's U-turn in January, Ray is finally assigned a new aide starting tomorrow but not at all what we were promised; we were approved for 4 hours, 3 times a week starting 11AM or later. But despite my telling them Ray gets up late (they're not allowed to leave him in bed), they tried to move the schedule even earlier, where she would come at 9AM. No way, that's MY time to get stuff done around the house. I thought older people usually got up with the sun, but apparently it's actually rare. The former agency had the same problem and were always moving their visits up to 8 or 9AM, with 5 minutes notice; they apparently have nothing at all going on then, or at least a lot of cancellations. My dream is to have enough time to go out for lunch with friends or drive farther away than usual to go to some old favorite haunts, for shopping or hiking. Obviously job hunting will be in the very distant future based on the unreliability of help so far.
They are still insisting on this person starting tomorrow, and I said not before 11AM, sorry, so she is coming for just 2 hours until 1PM. Not planning to leave the house this first visit anyway, I mean how much can you get done in two hours really? Not sure if they think this will help me in any way (it won't) wish my gym was open for classes midday but the last class starts by 10AM. So I'd have to get Ray up and ready starting at 9 and that would be a nightmare for both of us. 10AM is the earliest get up time for him, I haven't changed the clocks yet so he's staying in bed even later which gives me a little more time to do other stuff (like today, setting up my mini Spy Cam!).
They just want the money no matter how inconvenient for the patient; however with Ray on Long Term Managed Care if they say jump, we have to jump. We did decide on noon to 4 being optimal and they will "look" for someone else, but since it took 3.5 months for this new agency to get this far, guess I won't be seeing a better aide scheduled to us until the summer is over, if then. What else is new? At least they are trying, unlike the Dominicans, I will say that much for them. I'm hoping we will get someone that Ray doesn't hate (like might be too tall of an order!) and that the socialization will be a big bonus, not to mention I'll get them right on board with getting him up and walking, or taking him for walks in the wheelchairs when the weather gets better. I can only hope!
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