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What a day!


Budweiser

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Well yesturday was a great (but very tired) day. My wife left me the car yesturday so I can go out on my self (I've done before but it's scary). I've been trying this that last few weeks going on my own (as the neurologist said I should do some stuff alone). Since my accident/stroke, it was always me and my wife (my caregiver) going out to do stuff. Well, it's time for me to start being the most normal as I can. I can do almost everything now, it's just my talking now.

 

Okay, I left my house (let Bud so he can nap :big_grin: ) and went to the mall, the the one near my house but the mall that was about 30 minute drive away. I need to push myself (but safley). I walked around the mall about 2 hours and felt hungry. I looked over what I wanted but I have to wait until i'm ready (rehearse myself). I went over and said "number 1 with a pepsi". I did it, that is so scary but I did it.

 

I left the mall and I felt to see the owner at my work. It's hard to talk there about work stuff (to me it sounds chinese to me). The guys talked but nothing about work, just about how things are doing. My owner had to do some errands (I was going to do that before my accident, I was taking over stuff for the owner so ge could take it easy). He went out for about an hour and took me for a coffee. I was so tired adter that but I needed it. I went home after that.

 

Now, who do I go and see next? Maybe soon to see my parents but that's about 1 hour drive each way. I will work on that so I can go myself. Push Push Push, I can do it one day.

 

 

:gleam:

 

 

sorry if noone understands it, sometimes i'm in my own world.

 

:huh:

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Bill,

Congrats on getting out by yourself today. It seemed like I leaped and Bounded, in all recovery areas after I started getting out on my own like you are doing, and it builds up your stamina.

-Amy

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Bill,

It sounds like you had a really good day. My husband would love to be able to do that. He keeps bugging me to get approved to drive again. I am sure your wife worries a bunch. Each time you do go out by your self it will get easier. Be proud of your self this is a big step in your recovery.:beer:

Lynn

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Bill, here is a thought if one is fairly close, so you don't have to drive far. I go to McDonalds at walmart often, I drive and use the handicap parking spaces close to the front door. Lots of seniors all the time all day long.

 

In the mornings, they eat pancakes, drink coffee. It's discounted for us seniors. Most of them order salads other times.

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bill,

 

i TOTALLY undertand. my brain injury/stroke, they don't really know, but stroke is the "official diagnosis", was caused by a head injury in a car accident. it's been over two years and i STILL have panic attacks when i drive.

 

after abiout a year of only driving locally, my cousin insisted we meet in atlanta to visit which is about 3 hours away. I THOUGHT I'D LOSE IT. but i made it. now, i have gone and moved to kentucky from alabama IN THE MOUNTAINS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

i freak everytime i drive anwhere but do it anyway. last week i got caught in a freak snow storm and made it home. thyere were many accidents al around me and my first impulse was to pull over and call someone to come get me. know what? my worry over my loved ones safety over rode my own fears and I MADE IT!!!!!!!!!

 

i will nevr ever give up. keep trying, if i can traverse a snow storm, YOU CAN DO ANYTHING!!!! btw, the best way to drive in snow is this. DON'T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL LOL LOL

 

 

good luck sweetie.

 

kim

 

 

p.s the last time we had snow in alabama was 1993 and it wasn't enough to build a snowman. lol lol

 

 

 

:roflmao: :roflmao:

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