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it could have been worse


swilkinson

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I have just posted a call for prayers for Ray because he had a fall today and is in hospital with a fractured pelvis. It amazes me how quickly things change as we were having a very good day in a week which promised to be a good one too.

 

Ray actually had the first fall this morning, he said he tripped over a cord (which he knew was there) and had twisted around somehow. He had fallen on carpet and was unharmed, maybe just slightly winded. So I did the British thing, sat him down in a comfortable chair and gave him a "nice cup of tea." Half an hour later he was just fine.

 

We went out to lunch with a friend, down to the sea again, this time a little seaside town. Had a nice fish and chip lunch, well Ray and I shared a big serving of fish and chips and salad, I had the salad and half the fish. We had a stroll around the shops with him in his wheelchair. It was a glorious day with a warm sun and a cool breeze. Even had the satisfaction of watching a fisherman catch a highly edible fish, fishing in one of the channels at the lake entrances.

 

We came home and while I was unloading the car with *P* the friend who came with us, Ray started towards the back door, took just a few steps and fell backwards. When I got him up he couldn't seem to stand so I took him inside in the wheelchair. I tried to stand him up inside but he appeared to be in pain so I helped him onto his bed and called an ambulance. The paramedics can always tell if there is a need to go to hospital so after examining him and questioning me they despatched him there quick smart.

 

Upshot of all the tests, xrays etc is that he has a hairline fracture of the pelvis on the left hand side, luckily not involving the hip joint. The plate and pin is still nicely in place, there is no need for surgery. He just needs some bedrest, a couple of days on pain meds and then assessment by the physiotherapists. They will decide if he can come home or needs to have some therapy first. I am glad this decision is taken out of my hands. I think he needs a little physio though I doubt he will continue to exercise once he gets home again.

 

It is inevitable, given all his conditions that one of the falls will be serious. Lucky this was not a broken off bone or a broken hip, just the pelvis fractured in such a way that no surgery, traction etc will be needed. I can't wrap him in cotton wool. I look after him as well as I can and have to pray continually that no harm will come to him. It is a tragedy that he continues to develop more problems, despite all the medications, good care etc. Now the "mild" osteoporosis may become one more hazard in our lives.

 

Just keep us both in your thoughts and prayers please.

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Sue,

 

I'm sorry to hear this news, but as your title says, it could have been worse. So it sounds like you've got something to be grateful for along with the tragedy of yet another set back. As we say around here, "It's hell growing old, but the alternative is worse." I will keep you both in my thoughts.

 

Jean

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Sue,

 

I'm so sorry to hear about Ray's fall. Like you, I'm sure he's right where he should be now. The folks at the hospital can also monitor his breathing, etc and make sure he's moving enough to keep his lungs clear.

 

Take this time to get a little rest (don't I sound like the wise one though?? lol). You know you'll have a little heavier load for a while when he returns home.

 

I'll be praying for you both.

 

Love,

 

Ann

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Sue,

I'll be praying for Ray, he has suffered so much and so many strokes I lost count. Would love to telephone you and him one day. I can call many places for free these days.

 

When I hit the lottery, I'm getting a team of visitors together with hopes of paying you and Ray a visit. We can blog about that visit for a long time. That'll be my second visit to the land down under.

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Sue,

I am so sorry to hear about Ray's fall! I will keep you and Ray in my thoughts (of course I always do :) ). I hope Ray is home as quickly as possible.

 

Kristen

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Sue,

I have just logged on after a long absence. I hope the news about Ray is better and he is making progress. Even tho I know you want him home, dont let him come home before you feel able to cope.

 

I like the phrase....did the British thing..... :big_grin: :big_grin: There is lot to be said for a cup of tea in a crisis. :party:

 

Wishing Ray well, and you a rest.

take care

Mary

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Hi Sue

Sorry to hear about Ray, please give him our best wishes. It is my greatest fear hence i still rely on the wheelchair. i can walk ok when Kathy is walking behind me but shuffle along byself. We hope he gets better soon.

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