Walking is a hard thing to re learn... It does get better over time, with much practice. Above all... be safe, either using a walker or a cane.

In the yard I often use a stick.. (a sturdy one) seems like it works on dirt and ground better. I am also very careful with the shoes I wear. around the house and yard I started with "aqua socks" they are almost like going barefoot, but have a rubber sole so your feet are protected.

My balance and walking improved in the 2nd yr. I know it is a hard, tiring time, but do't give up.. it is a challenge.

Ken:

don't ever think that way of not wanting to getup, you survived for a reason, so give a great fight, become great rolemodel for your kids the dad who never gives up, and I can tell you from survivor view point walking will become better as time goes by, so stick to your mantra about not giving up on that hope, u r going to do all thosethings you did, mabe little differently, but you will

Asha

Ken , try and get out and about as much as you can. I know you want to walk but a wheelchair can be your "chariot" until then. I do admire your determination to walk but don't miss out on the good things in life in the meantime.

Ray and I would not have done half the things we have if he didn't consent to use the wheelchair for distances and busy places like shopping centres. Ray also goes to Daycare which gives him new companions and me a break. It's not about age it's about ability now. I don't know what his ability will be like when he comes home again, but whatever it is we will cope.

I am glad you are able to continue with Lions but don't mourn the past and all you used to be able to do, we all have to move on from that.

As you live in such a lovely area take advantage of a picnic by the river, a day in the mountains or a dinner out as much as you can. It will lighten your mood and brighten up your caregiver's life too. Believe me when I say I love a day out even though it is a lot of trouble planning one.

Cheers mate, Sue.