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So it seems that you've learned that sometimes if you want to do something badly enough you have to be willing to pay the price-- and you decided it was worth it. And you still believe it was worth it-- therefore, it was. I haven't had a stroke but I do understand that concept. You know my back still bothers me even all these years after my car wreck, but I don't let it stop me from doing what I want to do. I just keep the ibuprofen handy and know I may be paying for it for a few days afterwards. Life is short-- keep making memories. :Clap-Hands:

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Hi Wes!

 

Sounds like you have at least SOME of the same kind of windows in your house as in mine. i know we have a few different kinds but i swear it sounds like some were made by the same manufacturer. . . know what i mean?

hey try to get yourself some rest. it is o.k. to do that. you deserve that without apology.

 

be good to yourself friend

 

Brian

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So you think you MAY have over done it a bit on Sunday? Probably did but you are still basking in the joy you had while you were doing it. So it was worth it! :D I can understand the concept of not knowing how your day is going from one day to the next. Not in the same way as you probably but I have to make adjustments in my day too!

I am sure the presentation did go well and I understand being your own worst critic. [i suffer from that myself.] The really important thing is; you DID do it!

It definitely is okay to take a nap as needed, go to bed early or whatever it takes to get your needed rest! Have a great evening.

I love you and am praying for a better day for you tomorrow!

 

Mom

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Yes that energy gremlin... grrrgh . I have learned..lol That If i over do, the next few days.. I will be very tired... I do try to pace myself.. but there are things we want to do and enjoy, sometimes you can stop and have a little energy break.. and sometimes you just over do .. and know there will be consequences..

 

No No Never give up.. I had one Dr tell me,, about 18 months would peak... I had another old Dr (friend) said as Long as you keep trying that is the main thing.

 

All I could do in the beginning was drag my left along with me, with a walker. within a month I was up to a cane.. then about 6 months.. un-aided. I walk with a limp.. I have had people ask if I had knee surgery. So far I have not figured out how to run.. but I am not planning on any marathons..

 

I had the focus and attention span of a gnat.. I still have some days,, where I have several projects started..lol and days I go in the laundry room, and find a load half folded...

 

but I cook meals, bake, drive, etc. I have practice with computer games.. staying focused, using timers.. Iam almost 6 yrs post stroke.. and I Do not see the giant strides.. but it is more like "fine tuning" I have found easier ways to do things.. and I have adjusted to the deficits.. Stroke is all about time, practice and patience.

 

Tired days, days out of energy.. because I have over done, I know I will have ssome problems with "word retrieval" or slurring my words.. I do have more energy now than I had first year or so post stroke. The Dr also found I was severely deficient in vitamin D.. once we got my levels in the more normal range, it has made a big difference also.

 

...Just know .. we will over do , and try to plan so you have some days.. after that you maybe can take it a bit easy... But enjoy what you like.. and Congrats on the presentation

 

Bonnie

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