Hey Ruth, your blog made me feel so good! I really like your attitude and hope you can continue to feel the same way. I found with Mum that I have developed the same philosophy. I deal with Mum visit by visit, we have good times and not so good times, whatever she is doing I do it too. It IS fun to be with her as she is a unique human being.

I am not as good with Ray but I find what I say is how I fee l so I call him pet names, tell him he is good, act towards him as I would like others to act towards me. I am not sure I agree with you about the Depends, sometimes that smell overpowers my good intentions. But I do know what you mean, Ray is my dearly beloved husband and I need to act towards him in the best way.

Sue.

hey Ruth:

It's such a great blog. I like your philosopy itt's best way to live life to fullest & with mindfullness.

Only power of love can overpower aroma of depend. & you both are blessed to have that in your life.

Asha