I am beginning to learn how to use the help that is offered to me. At the beginning, I felt and William felt that I had to be there for everything. But, now, I have 2 second family ministries offering to help me out. One is with our present church and one is with our past church. The old church has somebody offer to come out once a week. They call and see what day is convenient for me and them. They will stay with William for 1-2 hours. I usually try to shop or go to the gym. Our present church, has somebody come twice a week. One of the people with take William out out lunch and bring over a casserole , so that I won't have to cook. They know that I work until 10PM. THe other friend takes William to one of his therapy sessions and then out to lunch. This is a big break for me all morning. I gets lots of stuff done. Visit friends and lounge in the sauna and swim.

I had a calll from one of the volunteers yesterday while I was at work. And i had the presence of mind to say...Yes, Thurs. would be a good time. 11AM

Somedays at work. I cannot focus on my home schedule. So this coming week I have help onWed, Thurs and Friday. What a treat!

I am slowly learning.