We leave bright and early tomorrow (Friday, Aug 21) for California. We fly into San Diego if we can manuver both the wheelchair and walker. It's a transport wheelchair and too small for me to carry the walker on my lap. But tonight Jerry rigged it to fit on the handlebars of the wheelchair so he can push me. That took some thinking (LOL) When there is a will there is a way and I'm glad Jerry helped with this "small" dilemma. We'll be renting a car, spending a night in a motel about 45 min no. then the next day drive another hour to visit my ex-stepdaughter (who is only 7 years younger than me). Her dad and I met 40 years ago and Vicki's "baby" is now 40. She has always called me grandma even after a divorce 30 years ago. Thus, her 3 children call me grandma too. My other ex-stepdaughter (6 years younger) will also be there with one of her kids and 2 grandchildren. Of course, all the spouses will be there too. I started getting overwhelmed tonight over how many people will be there. I know them all well and have seen them often I can't help my anxiety since my stroke. They, of course, know all about it but, as you all know, not everybody "gets it". I know I'll have to lay down during their visit. I really am honored that they all want to see me and for 6 of them it's not real close.

Now for the real fun...on Sunday we check into a beautiful condo in Carlsbad Village with a ocean view from the balcony. I need the R&R and respite from the AZ heat. I think this is what the doctor ordered!! I will also get to see my best CA friend and her 24-yr old daughter Leah, my goddaughter, and her 3 siblings. I'll post some pictures after we return.

I don't have a laptop so will MIA for a while thinking of you as I gaze at the ocean and sunsets. Leah