and yet we just turn another page in in life
well i have foundthat in our journey of recovery we are not the only ones that are taking a trip, no we are taking a journey all of us togeter as one among with my caregiver and my wife and of coarse my family and it would seem that i am not the only journey that i will have to make the reason that i am writing this blog is to let you know that my wifes mother my mother in law, she is 83 has just went into assited living so now it would seem that as life goes on so does change happen some for the good on my journey of recovery but alas som is not so good my mother in law upon realizing, that she is to old to be as dependany as she would like to be so alas another page in life my mother in law has learn to accept it but of coarse it is very hard for my cargivers my wife as she is very sad that her mother is struggling to be as independant as possible and so now i am tring to console my caregiver and my wife about her mother, so now more than ever i have been a very good help to my wife in dealing eith an aging mother who is very good with a very good heart but now i have foundthat i am less of a husbund who is tring to recovery from a stroke and more of a caring and support ing husbund to my wife who i love dearly. and would do most anything for her if i could so now it is a new life for me and a new beginning i have change roles it would seem from a stroke surviver to a loving husband who as i am still recovering but now i am just a husband who cares about my wife and my mother in law we can now forge ahead as a couple knowing that i am for her and we are together and i guess thats what a marriege is suppose to be now i still need support nut i am very happy to say that i am now giving my support to my wife, and i just wanted all to know that as life goes on it will change and how you respond to change i guess is part of recovery i know that i do think alot about that and i do think very clearly so that in itself is a good start , so now as i go on i will simply turn another page in my recovery
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