It is good when all of the work you have put in finally starts to show results 2003-May 2005 were our good times, Mum settled in her Dementia Lodge, Ray fully recovered from 2001 stroke and we seemed to do a lot of things we hadn't done in a while.

I actually wrecked one wheelchair when I went down a gutter and bent the wheel so badly I couldn't get it fixed! And yes, I have had a lot of people young and old stand and watch me struggle.

Hope you find a lot of good things to do this summer - enjoy.

Sue.

Debbie, I mavel at all you are able to do and how well you can keep to a schedule. I have never been good with too much structure. I guess with Dick that was a good thing because there has never been a way to press him into any mold since his stroke. Though it is often a lot of work there is a HUGE payoff to see our dear one have a good time with others. As to the fellow that just watched, I don't know what to do with those types. I remember before I had my crash course in caregiving, that I felt awkward and stupid around elderly or disabled because I just didn't know what to do. I was happy to help if told what to do. So I try to give other people the benefit of the doubt. I am continually amazed at the many many good Samaratins who have stopped and helped. I had wheeled Dick down a long rocky road so he could ride on a pontoon boat. When I got there a bunch of guys (including the captain) carried him on board then carried him up some stairs so I would not have to push him the long way back. Your scooter sounds wonderful if you can get it going.

Ruth

Debbie, you are caregiver extradonaire! I applaud you for taking care of Bruce, with taking his WC AND scooter on your outing. Way to go. :goodjob: I don't think I could have managed all that. I know all is appreciated, even thought you don't hear much praise sometimes. We are rewarded nonetheless, knowing we do all we can for our loved ones. You seem so organized with your weekly schedule of what do to each day. It makes me want to get a little more organized with Larry's week. I too have the medical issue coming up next week and have a caregiver to take care of Larry both days. I have one of the kids to take me and pick me up for the surgery. I hope your medical issue is not too serious. We caregivers have to take care of ourselves too, even though it's not always that easy. Have a good week. :cocktail:

Julie

Debbie,

You are doing so well. I know how it is with people who are not helpful. Why did that scooter die?

It is a good thing that you had a back up with the WC ...

One day Bruce will walk....I too am optimistic....

great week!

Ruth

Debbie - congratulations are due for being such an outstanding and resourceful caregiver

You must have been a girl scout to be so prepared! I am less than 6 mos post with

Sam, and I seem not to be prepared for anything. But we have had a good week, so far. You and Bruce have come so far and I will continue to pray for both of you.

Lots of {{{{hugs}}}}

Kathy