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After Holding Our Collective Breaths, A Sigh of Relief


lydiacevedo

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Today, being 12/27/2011, means that I stroked 1 year and 1 day ago. No one will say for sure, but I think my entiore family held their breaths all day yesterday, waiting for the worst and hoping for the best. Well, I am not writing this blog entry from a hospital bed. I came through my first anniversary without so much as a mild headache.

 

 

I don't know why everyone thought that yesterday could make or break itself, or that I could end up exactly where I was a year ago, but everyone in the family thought it, even me, even Sam.

 

 

 

Now, I can look back at this past year and be happy that my recovery has come so far. I am doing very well. I am driving, training my own service dog, cooking meals, basically living my life as I had pre-stroke, with a couple of compensations for some challenges that popped up with the stroke. It's been an emotional year. There have been plenty of ups and downs on the rollercoaster, but so far, so good.

 

 

So, happy first birthday to the new Lydi. She's alot like the old Lydi, but different enough to understand how quickly life can change in ways no one ever expected, and smart enough to want to live every day the best that she can.

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Happy Birthday New lydi.

Soon you will realize life is still good just little different but still good. :congrats: lydi, first year is the hardest of all but it will become better now. enjoy your life's rides. Soon you will realize like I did that stroke was just bump in your life's journey to slow down & enjoy goodness still left in your life.

 

 

Asha

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Happy Birthday New Lydi! Congratulations, honey, to you and your family on your anniversary.

 

Part of it is the reminder of the horror and fear we felt a year ago. I hope that fades with the many years to come. You will always celebrate the Anniversary, but hopefully it will be a fun and happy day and not a day of trepidation. And yes, it is now a day that requires presents-lol. At least that is what Bruce said last March at year two.

 

Congratulations again. Debbie

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"Living every day the best that I can" is a good motto for your new life. One day at a time is all we have. Grandiose plans for future happiness fill our dreams but the life we live is having to live with reality.

 

Congratulations on making it through that first year, it is the tough one. You've done well.

 

Sue.

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HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU! THINGS WILL GET BETTER. I JUST HAD MY 15TH STROKE ANNIVERSARY. MAY THE LORD COMFORT YOU AND GIVE YOU PEACE.

-WILL

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