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married great caregiver & provider but ofcourse he is not perfect


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I love my husband dearly, due to strok his great assets came into my attention. he is fabulous caregiver & provider. kido & I are lucky to have him in our life, due to stoke I learnt his valuable strengths which were hidden under nonromantism. hubby is never into showing his love through flowery words. he shows his love through his actions, by being there for us any time we may need him, & ofcourse he is the one who enabled me post stroke to reach it to my highest potential. he was the one who encouraged me to do more for us by learning new subjects & taking over financial things to do in our household, which ofcourse increased my confidence in my ability & made me happy. Though he is not perfect, he will not say or do things to please other person if he don't believe in it which ofcourse it used to make me very unhappy about it though ofcourse post stroke I realized what matters & I learnt only person you can change is yourself so by changing myself & not having any expectation of romance in the form of flowery words from him life is great. Anyway I enjoy this tidbits of wisdom I get every day and through my blogs you also learn if you choose to read my blogs lol.

 

Asha

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Dear Asha: Yes, you are blessed to have a hubby with a wonderful character and that you love so much. Jerry had such a personality also although he also wrote flowery words on cards he gave me on special occasions. It was after my stroke that I realized fully what a Godsend he was in my life. Now after his death I appreciate another side of him - that of a wonder caregivers. I miss him so much. I know for a fact we were soul mates - don't know if he felt as strongly as I do but that is okay. I still cry once in a while but am grateful for what I had. I loved reading about your love and connection with your husband. Enjoy every day. Leah

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Asha: yours is a true love story and I am always so hopeful and up-lifted after I read your blogs. I pray often that Bruce and I will find that peace. Debbie

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Yes Asha you deserve to brag a liitle. I'm gald your husband is so helpful! Take pirde in what you can. After all you claim your rights as you can in life! Keep up the good work! Love your husband and let him know how special he is every chance you have.

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Asha You always look at things as if the glass is half full. I admire your actions, words

(chat) and your writings . I am very lucky also that my husband and caregiver is always

there for me. Your are such an inspiration .... I hope one day I will more positive and take the time to be in the moment. Debbie Jerseygirl3 and still Buddy334.

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ASHA,

IT IS TRULY GREAT WHEN YOU FIND YOUR SOUL-MATE. PAM AND I ARE SO HAPPY, FUNNY, IT SEEMS LIKE WE'VE KNOWN EACH OTHER ALL OUR LIFE, BUT, WE HAVE ONLY BEEN MARRIED TWO YEARS. STAY HAPPY, ENJOY LIFE, NO WORRIES.

-WILL

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