As usual you are so right. I will add not being hard on myself to going with the flow as my two "things to do".

Sue.

Asha, I may be wrong but once you visit with another survivor and see what they are doing and how they cope you will realize a few things where you are too hard on yourself!! Anymore we are not that perfect person we want to be! We have deficits around every corner we turn!! My eyes are like yours and I just imagine others are like us too!!

I get so tired to changing eyeglasses but the VA takes care of that problem with no cost to me but it takes a couple weeks for the glasses to get back to me!! But hey, we are bonafide handicapped people!

Your are so right Asha, I think the stroke has given me blinders and that goes fo a crumb on my shirt or tabletop. I just have to let up on myself. I know God will help, so I think I will let Him!! Love you all even though I'm not around much. Leah

Hi Asha: I am feeling down today, and its really because I am just tired! I do a lot of my own ADLs now to cut down on aide hours, and I walk about an hour a day, with supervision, so I'm going to feel tired. My recovery has been slow, but I don't have a lot of the problems some survivors have, so I should feel grateful--but I don't! Tomorrow is another day and it will be different. All the best to you. HenryB